The game was well planned from day one by the mutual girlfriend that gave him the girl's number.
Girls don't joke with innocent, caring and soft men. For the guy to block, unblock and block the girl shows weakness on his side and the girl is aware. Gradually he's gonna fall for the girl out of pity or out of the attention - it will start by just giving her a chance.
From the story, that girl is definitely a street girl that have cast in her location and those kind of ladies don't joke with innocent, caring and soft men.
I've come across ladies like this and they approach me with manipulative method because of my gentle appearance
Connected1 be wise o
That's very correct, thank God you are the wise type despite your gentleness.
The fact that this guy brought it here is clear that he has her in mind.. hopefully he learns sha
Exactly what I told him.
The lady has seen the innocence and softness in him and she want to manipulate him into marriage
Funny enough he still thinks he is in control,little by little he is being manipulated while telling himself that he doesn't love her .
A girl you are not inlove with or had anything with, but you have been spending for years on her..it's not long before she solidifies everything in marriage.
He will definitely marry out of the attention that she is showing,it's just time..and by the time she is settled and marriage she will make his life a living hell.because he is obviously not her first choice
Connected1:
A Coursemate Friend gave me the number of a certain girl about 3 years ago saying that she needed a friend to talk with, so I started getting along with her based on my easy going personality, so at a point she needed finance and myself not giving money anyhow I gave her my goods to sell and take the profit whilst she bring back my capital, she failed at it and I went to take back my goods, after that I bought goods for her to sell based on a business she said her friend told her about, the business failed and I barely got my capital I gave her.
I was doing the best I can for her but then she brought talks about having feelings for me and how she knows I do too but I kept hiding mine, so I shunned her about it, we quarreled and I deleted her phone number & blocked her everywhere, after a very short while, she began using her friends to call me and beg me, I completely ignored everything because i don't have any feelings for her nor am I even interested in sleeping with her when she offered me sex despite saying she was sacred about all that.
Alas I unblocked her when she lost her mum and she wrote me, I felt I needed to assist in consoling her by unblocking and chatting her up, then I offered some financial help too because both her parents are now gone and I told her not to bother me about dating her and focus on offers she receives which she agreed on, she's 29 and I understand time is telling on her.
Then some months got past and everything was going well, then she came again with the love jargon again and began saying how she prayed on the day I gave her money around when she lost her mum, she said she told God that whichever man she knows that sent her money is the one going to marry her and I was the only one who sent money and a huge one at that bla bla bla, I was infuriated and told her I unblocked her because she lost her mum, she kept explaining and I wasn't having any of it, then she agreed and swore not to disturb me about dating or marrying her I recommended she blocked me so that it will help her to forget about me but she never agreed.
We got talking again and living our lives until this week when she brought up issues about dating and marrying her again, how she saw me in her dreams that I was the one, how 2 other guys were asking her out and she prayed to God to know the right one and i suddenly appeared in her dreams, at this point I think I am sick of it and might go mad anytime soon if I continue like this, the reason I haven't blocked her everywhere this time around is because she gave me a job connect which one of her elder brothers was involved in as an exco member and I paid some money like others did only that it was cheaper so I have been hesitant, since it seems the job is about to taking shape and they may start paying this month or next, around 150k -200k for 2 weeks and I intend using it as a side hustle along side my business and normal job.
Please I need your advice, because whilst I have no intentions to date her or have sex out of pity, I can't just let this job opportunity go like that because I feel she may tell her brother to jeopardise the whole thing for me now if I chase her away angrily.
I will appreciate your inputs, regardless of how I feel about it.
You are not being wise at all..
She doesn't even love you, she is only doing it cuz time is not in her side
And you too..you are enjoying the attention that's why you don't want to cut off completely
If you don't want to enter problem that you can't solve in years to come.. better avoid anything to do with her..if it requires leaving that job, better do so...cuz a desperate woman can go lengths...be wise oga
HeatSeeker:
We have to give it to the Jagaban 🙌🙌🙌. He steam rolled everybody and there is nothing anyone can do about it. He is the god of modern Nigerian politics.
Maybe she is a dominatrix abi how do they call themselves. Findom who wants to be dominated. They like punishment and suffer head.
Women like rough and tough men naturally as long as it does not injure them, sometimes in their head, they are thinking as a mother, as a nurturer that they can redeem the boy. I said boy, not man. Women like it when you apologize to them, it gives her power if that macho guy still wants her. It's all psychology. This is why they go for the bad boys until their head is correct after enough beating and abuse from him. The gentleman they turned down Don move on by then. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JtH7UmILdII?si=J0IMmOxvWWHt3y3i
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mightyhaze:
See as them dey throw wild punches like preteen girls cat fight... I go end both of them in seconds... Even tho I'm at least 7 yrs older than both.. very weak hooks..no better jabs,no ducking,no single upper cut or upper cut hybrids
Bunch of clowns 😄
Both of them lack any form of technique,any person with good knowledge of fighting could whoop their asses in a matchup
redcliff:
This is exwctly what i said in an earlier post that portable has fight sense and is more agile than many people think. Portable will also beat burna boy. I suspect it could be that he migjt be high on a substance that helps him perform.
All nigerian celebs should be squashing their beef like this. Anybody dey dey argue too much, make una enter boxing ring. Period!
This should become a thing in nigeria...
I hundred percent , this..Nigeria should have a booming organized fighting Scene on a national level, we actually have the market and what it takes to do this..which investor will push this idea..
Ykc2:
There is no powerful king In nigeria every king to his tribe's people only ,oba of Benin to his Benin people not to Esan , obi of onitsha to his onitsha people to not obosi or oba people,ooni or alafin to their yoruba people ,
Oga rest, I am full bloodied Esan and we recognize the Oba as the Emperor and father of all king's in Esan land
Any Esan Person saying otherwise doesn't know his root, because even the Esan king's recognize the Oba as the origin of any throne in Esan land
Any Benin person too saying the Esan people have no connection to Benin is also ignorant
The Oba's rule extends far beyond the people of Benin..and this is factss
I'm throwing this question to you because it's very important. Every time I ask, "how is Nairaland?" I'm told that it is fine. If I ask what are the challenges I'm told there are none.
So I need to talk to you guys directly about what you think is going on and what you want us to do. I have not had the confidence to make major changes on Nairaland. I have a little confidence now because of AI.
What are your complaints, your challenges, your issues. What are the things that can drive people away and need to be nipped?
Speak your mind, but don't be rude. Thanks.
The size of files and documented that Nairaland can accumulate should be upgraded
I'm talking about when I want to post a picture or video, by now nairaland should be able to accommodate larger files to some extent
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Hello sir I heard that the portal is closed, how can I apply