NewStats: 3,264,963 , 8,185,226 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 12:16 AM 6o4s5

There is a reason people like Toks2008 'seem' to encourage divorce or separation of irretrievably broken down relationships.

Around 50% of homicides of US female victims are committed by a loved one. Though in love, the cousin hate, is just around the corner.

https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2017/07/homicides-women/534306/

If there are early signs of violence, it is better to pull out on time before it gets aggravated.

Better alive and unmarried than living on borrowed time in the name of "I want to bear Mr or Mrs".

@hotplay, this is the police monitoring unit link on twitter.

https://mobile.twitter.com/PoliceNG_CRU

Call the number on their page and explain. They will tell you what to do.

Two wrongs don't make a right else you will enter a huge issue beyond your Wildest dreams. Don't tamper with the phone. Don't even attempt to blackmail or make demands from the cop. Simply call the monitoring unit tonight.

Wishing you well - Teemy

Miccolosblog:
I am new to fiverr and have a number of gigs to purchase, funding my fiverr seems to be an uphill task now. Can anyone help out please?

Use PayPal. You can link your Nigerian card to PayPal. I think there is a $100 or $200 limit on spending per month to Nigerian cards by the banks.

@Alvanbenjamin

Repost the receipt with the amount paid so we can look at it and compare to the 13k amount per month the rent was increased to. Redflag you erazing that part. Everything written below is based on the assumption that you paid in full.

For a one year or above rent tenure, you should be given 6 months prior notice in case you were being pushed out. If you are owing, you only have 7 days notice.

For rent increase, three months prior notice is also the norm.

However, the rent increase has no effect on you whatsoever as you had paid in full. You can only be affected by it by your 2023 date. The landlord simply wanted to raise rates two months after your 2021 payment and felt coercing you was the way to it. They then decided on evicting you but a lawyer would know that the one month notice is illegal.

The so called court order looks fake. By the way, that is not what a judgment order looks like. If you noticed, it was from your landlord's lawyer to you and not from the judge to you.

In a proper court case, you would have been invited to court by the bailiff with service notices which you would have signed (even if you reject to sign, as long as the bailiff lays eyes on you or pasted the notice on your shop door, it is as good as signed) which he would have presented to court on the appearance dates even if you refused to appear while the case goes on.

If you never heard of any court case before the so called court order, most likely, it was forged and that is certainly not a court judgment from a judge. The 'lawyer' there might end up in trouble.

The way forward would be to visit the court premises and confirm if anything like that exists in their records. Try to present photocopies just in case the lawyer has an insider working with him so your evidence does not get destroyed. Ask for the court registrar and confirm.

Trying to wring the lawyer to not disturb you by telling him he should leave you alone at a threat of revealing he is a fraud might not be safe for you as that has been the tactic he has been feeding with for many years. You knowing
will never make his mind at rest. Just saying.

Simply approach the police or local high court's law Bar office asking for the president with your evidence once the court confirms the fake papers.

Also, you still have to deal with your landlord. He might as well be included if it is found that he was in cohorts with the lawyer to perpetrate fraud. At this point, you are simply just letting the law take its course and things might get messy.

It is up to you how far you wish to go with this but that's the facts for you. The decision making afterwards are yours to make.


You simply want to finish your stay in peace. Never lose focus of that. Take a peaceful solution once they present it and have witnesses when it is agreed and documented with copies. Get evidence of the resolution.

Wishing you well - Teemy

I am more bothered about the corruption caused by delay in salaries.

At least, they know their salary when they were employed but when they are owed 6 months or one year salary and are still expected to appear at work (meanwhile their include not doing any other side business except agric related), it is almost as if they are indirectly told to "use what you have to get what you want".

In short, government itself encouraged civil/public service corruption

Omeneto mina

Nice one samfelly.

Welcome back everyone. I'm happy how the season 21 went. There was more maturity and more prop connects. Wishing everyone here success in their trading and related endeavors.

Wishing you well - Teemy

nextBIGthing:




Thanks for your comment

She isn’t that extravagant in spending like buying luxuries.
She just spends unwisely and don’t plan for important things
Like at the end of the day she won’t be able to even what and what the money was spent on

Seems she has the anointing for spending money. Reminds me of someone. Moi. I entering a nearby store to buy bread only to leave with a bill of 30k

The solution is simple. Help her draft a list of things needed. ANYTHING not listed must not be purchased.

Though hard, that is the only way to go.

Also, a fixed 20% of what enters her hands go into savings. With time, she will be saving yo to millions and guess who she would thank for making that happen? Me of course.

FutureIsFemale:
He was drunk. Serves him right.

Meanwhile

I saw a thread where someone said much attention has not been given to the boy child.

I laugh..

Who gives attention to unfruitful tree?

Candidlady:


this kildme ! The "unfruitful trees" are coming for your head

Sweethearts, I hope you didn't just refer to males as unfruitful.

While it is nice to promote attention to the issues faced by the female gender, do be careful not to become the victimizer of the male gender else you would become the very person the opposite gender should be protected from.

Wishing you well - Teemy

Church wedding
Court wedding
Traditional wedding

Which of them is NOT a wedding?

Unless wedding is no more defined as union of a man and a woman, any of them should suffice.

BUT, talk it out when dating to be sure you're both on the same page.

@Fredamanda

She loves to be around you. Simple.

Time are hard and everyone should pitch in.

Get her an online job and that solves everything.

Femeto:
Insta blog should be sued for not doing any investigation.

That news won't sell if the truth was reported. That is just what tabloids do. They ride with half-truths.

One part of the news I love is that the Seriki (Fulani head) pleaded with the woman. This means a good number of those involved are Fulanis (predominantly muslims) chasing around an Hosanna inscribed cloth.

The message: we are all the same in looking for life solutions and we can actually have peace despite our differences in tribe, religion or political affiliations.

@me23, use lubricant like olive oil. With lesser friction, things will be much less painful.

With less than N500, goya oil will sort your issue.

You had just one chic in your compound. Abeg tell us who the father is

slimcassi:

I introduced two roosters to the family, check page 13 on previous thread.

Riddle solved.

Cyril009:
Should I watch

Vinaland Saga
Black clover
Overlord

Which do you guys think I should watch ?

I recommend starting with overlord. Then vinland saga

toltee4real:
I thought its legal to search any apartment since they are in possession of VALID WARRANT?
While then this na?

Ordinarily, yes.

In this case however, there were loopholes on the manner and delivery of the warrant. The reason for the search request was given as 'illegal activities' which is as vague as it can get.

The warrant was given as number 7 whereby the odili residence is number 9. The warrant was also missing the name of the person the warrant was to have been addressed to.

Funny to note that it was the same magistrate that granted the first warrant that nullified it in another judgement. The claim in the nullification as being given incorrect (not accurate but something along that line) details.

If suspicion of illegal activities was enough to search any house, lots of houses would have been searched on a daily basis by law enforcement.

More details on this are on another frontpage topic that came out today.

Wishing you well - Teemy

Iamicekid:



If you separated without filing for divorce, is still like giving the other person hope, they can be separated but it has to been official with that you have prove, no matter the years it take to finalize, all u had to do is tender that as receipt, the woman just file some weeks ago, which should have been done years ago by the guy

You are right about the hope part which is the main reason a length of 2 to 3 years is given so that people don't just shout divorce on a whim. However, the divorce can only be filed AFTER the 2 to 3 years (depending on which state in Nigeria).

Iamicekid:


If you wan leave your wife divorce am to make things official, not leading her on thinking things can still be fixed and make it seems like nothing dey happen, Clear her from start then she go know her place, if she come dey do like werey then u go bring receipt out

In Nigeria, it takes 2 or 3 years of separation before a divorce case can be filed unless it is a cause of violence or bodily harm.

I read the man's brother stating they've been separated since 2018 and the divorce process was served recently.

On that level, both have been aware it was downhill.

Momma2:
My hubby and i were visiting a friend of his yesterday.
We are quite friendly with each other so no awkward hugs and all.
However, something strange happened yesterday.
I went into the kitchen to get something to eat,
while i was there, he came in and tried to hug me.

I didn't think much of it but he continued to put his arm's around me and rub me.
I pulled away gently only for me to turn around and see a huge erection.
I acted as though i didn't notice and ran from the kitchen.

He is quite close to my hubby but i feel as though i should tell my husband.

Your candid opinion please.

How did the story end

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

What you condone before marriage usually gets more afterward as there is the notion of "you are going nowhere".

A friend once told me that his then-fiance used to misbehave to him. After he had paid the bride price and she misbehaved, he beat her up. According to him, it was something he dared not do before but the bride price gives him the right to do as he did.

Think on this dear.

P.S You need to get yourself financial stability. Go out and get a well paying job.

Wishing you well - Teemy

About the Hantec contest, don't share data or hotspot with another contestant as you will both be flagged for violation.

samfelly:


Hahahahahaha, really a good time to go settle fight wit any of your-generator-neighbours o. E bi things

Yeah, e go really sweet if FTA clear all the prizes o, but Ghanaians no bi push-around-traders also o. Dem dey rep o

From the rules, it is not a matter of who can rush in highest lots as that part is being restricted. The award comes to the persons with title of PipMaker 'the jedi of pips'

I would love folks here to clear all the prizes.

Take note, no eas
Read the parts about the lot sizes.

Take it easy. No rush.

You will need light and internet. Data is cheap now. You might need to settle fight with that your friend that has a generator now before Nov 1.

Iyaebe:
I spoke with my mom yesterday about this issue and she said she can't do much since her late sister's children have shown no interest,so she's in of whatever decision they take.I'm just sad that a man from nowhere is reaping heavily from where he didn't sow

I watched a Yoruba movie where the father was obviously very wicked to his first son. The first wife had died and he remarried. He took very good care of the second wife and her kids while the first son was more of an outcast. The only people kind to the first son were one of the step sisters and a friend of the father.

At the man's will hearing, all of his properties were willed to his first son. This was surprising to everyone but a video explained all the father's act of wickedness. The father's friend had observed an act of wickedness from the second wife towards the first son and ad iced the man not to show any form of kindness to the boy if he wants him to live.

At that point, the two men concocted the plan of helping the boy only through the father's friend while to the general populace the father displayed himself as being hateful to the boy.

Back to the topic, could it be possible that the deceased prof hated his first wife and her kids as well as the second wife married for him by his mother and the kid from that union as well?

While one way could be that the man is a completely heartless man, another one could be he had his reasons for not wanting ANY of his children to partake of any inheritance from him. You might want to start considering the source of his wealth and you might see the point of him not wanting to it down. Not having his own kids birthed in his own house could just be a thing to look into.

One thing is clear, he had his reasons and he made that obvious with the next of kin and the will. As long as he wrote it and it was not a forged document, everyone has to comply with HIS WISHES no matter how it looks.

Everyone had better tepamose (get busy) especially this young boy looking for easy wealth and create their own empires rather than one that was not deemed for them to have.

Wishing you well - Teemy

GabsonFX:
TCF

Comparing with mff, mmf seems better considering the restrictions on tcf

A further look shows tcf's one time plan is better compared to the monthly.

peteregwu:


Bros, me wey go carry last. But at the moment I no dey participate oo... I dey busy for now.

Heeya, but no lele sha. Seems everyone is busy nowadays which is a good thing. Money must be made

MrEmir:


I don see am o, but I'll the cheering team. We're banking on you guys. Make us proud.
But honestly I do wonder if gabsonfx na Nigerian, because some of the stuffs he pulls here lives me in awe.

If anyother opportunity comes up like this again, I'll go for it. Meanwhile lemme keep sharping my skills.
Thanks mate for holla at us

He combined two forex business models together. I have those models written down but never thought of combining it that way. Hats off on that.

I am surely including it in my book.

CopyJoe:
Very true, boss.

I took two weeks break at a point due to stress.

Lol. The funny thing is I once taught a class and warned not to trade if you are having issues with your partner.

Feshizzy:


Best lie so far these season,
Keep it up,

That might be the excuse but it is a fact that stress makes traders misbehave. Though it is actually indiscipline that happens.

@samfelly

Seen it. I believe Peteregwu will win this one. Consistency pays.