NewStats: 3,263,806 , 8,181,462 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 01:51 AM 58l6n

GoodSpirit:



How did yiu know this? Have you date her? Life on SM is different from life in the real world unless you are her classmate or sibling who have known her in real life before you can assert this way.

I could sense it in her spirit/aura.
I can't say the same about you though.

Are you sure you're truly of a goodspirit?

sylve11:


Enlighten them, bro.

You can tell there isn't such men only she might be picky

obailala:
So because a person isn't a pauper, she should automatically jump and marry the person without considering other factors?

then what's the problem?

…

MoneyMan5:


She is the one to blame if she want to follow some rules or conception

Life is more complicated than you all assume, who says you have to do things certain way or follow certain rules.

I'm sure with her capabilities she can easily get a well educated, cool headed gentleman that will be loyal to her , have considerable success that won't make her shameful even if he's not on the same financial standard as her and her family if she s him many people won't even know who is richer between them.

I'm sure she is the problem herself.

Look at this Japanese princess that gave up her right and position in the royal family to married a commoner in Japan. Do you know what the Japanese royal family is ? Who is the Otedola compare to Japan Emperor? I'm it can never happen in Nigeria.

I didn't explicitly say marriages between rich or royal females and less well-to-do males don't work, some actually do. But they require an extremely high degree of emotional intelligence, open communication and secure self-identity from both partners for them to work.

Forget the Nollywood shenanigans, a woman marrying a man she's 100 times richer than comes with an imbalance which quite often erodes the man's self-confidence and ego, which will eventually lead to problems (if not now but later).

For a better chance at things working out, the man doesn't necessarily have to be as rich as her or her family, but he needs a certain level of financial stability and independence to be able to assert his confidence and leadership.

yinkeys:

Leech ?
Lol there are many competent & confident men in Nigeria without network
Nigeria is a large population with meagre opportunities
Nigeria isn’t industrializing
Even Microsoft couldn’t cope in our harsh economy & packed up
Good luck to her

Yeah agreed - Nigeria's economy is not good, but for a better chance at a stable and happy home, what she needs is to be with an independent, financially stable and confident man; anything else increases the chances of a failed relationship.

yetunsbay:
then what's the problem?

So the only thing you check before marrying a person is whether they have money or not? No compatibility checks, no mutual respect checks, no character or personality checks, no behavioral checks, no friendship or love checks, no family background checks etc. You just expect people to consider only finance before jumping to marriage?

I don't understand your question; or are you being sarcastic?

Babangidapikin:

He is just a reference for normal working guy she could hook up with and have her peace of mind and her real babies ..that would make her change pampers ...and disturb her sleep at night .. not dudu and funfun .

muyico:
Most of celebrity wey mingle with u, backwardness hits dem, look at Anthony Joshua and Isreal Adesanya, dey don dey collect wotowoto since d day they meet you, they thought is normal but no, even ex dat white, his club don go religation

pls aw do i unread this abeg

ANFANI Adugbo !!

ufotunang:
..why is she finding it difficult to get a husband

Because of too many body counts...! 😔

Bwilliam:
Her sister somehow found a man.
She was busy "finding herself" and following vibes.

When you find a crazy man and you announced him as husband within eleven days.
That's is recipe for a disaster !

Harddiskng:


I don’t know whether she has a bad character.

But this i know, no man sees something of value and walks away from it.

Imagine you are having a pleasant afternoon walk and you see PS5 in a shop for 100k. Giveaway. You go in to confirm and you see its brandnew, nothing wrong with it and the seller is willing to let it go. My guy even if you don’t have the 100k, you will start running helter skelter to look for it within the hour. You won’t let it go without a fight, no one lets value to walk away from them just like that. Well this story is not about PS5.

Wetin you dey wait for go collect the PS5 for 100k

carzeem1:
No pressure, marriage not for everyone anyways.
May she find happiness in any path she choose.

clearly she's not happy with said path

AllBlack:


be human

schadenfreude is human

Cromagnon:
schadenfreude is human

wait for it.

obailala:
So because a person isn't a pauper, she should automatically jump and marry the person without considering other factors?

obailala:
A woman of her status doesnt just need 'any' kind of man. The man has to be at a certain independent financial level, else there'd be an imbalance which could rock the foundation of the relationship.

all the men she has been meeting, are they paupers?

simple yes or no

Somebody should please marry this girl let us hear word

E get one girl wey shakara still full her body at 27.

I dey look am dey laugh.

She thinks say time still dey.

lexy2014:




all the men she has been meeting, are they paupers?

simple yes or no

The question you asked seems somewhat irrelevant to the subject at hand so I'm honestly at a loss on how to respond to you. Also, I'm sorry I don't do "yes or no" answers cos I find them too intellectually limiting to be meaningful.

Restating my earlier point for clarity - while financial status is very very important, it clearly isn't the only factor a wise person should be considering when choosing a spouse.

Except there's a deeper message behind your question which I'm missing, do you mind elaborating?

eepeepook:
Like a joke, this woman was once engaged. ROFLMAO.

To an UK working class peasant.

Anthony Oluwafemi Olaseni Joshua, please now, na beg i dey beg u......end this misery now, Let God use you.

obailala:
The question you asked seems somewhat irrelevant to the subject at hand so I'm honestly at a loss on how to respond to you. Also, I'm sorry I don't do "yes or no" answers cos I find them too intellectually limiting to be meaningful.

Restating my earlier point for clarity - while financial status is very very important, it clearly isn't the only factor a wise person should be considering when choosing a spouse.

Except there's a deeper message behind your question which I'm missing, do you mind elaborating?

are you saying that this your comment is irrelevant to the subject at hand?

obailala:
A woman of her status doesnt just need 'any' kind of man. The man has to be at a certain independent financial level, else there'd be an imbalance which could rock the foundation of the relationship.

all the men she has been meeting, are they paupers?

simple yes or no

TempleHouse:

Because of too many body counts...! 😔

.. nawaaooo....🙄

lexy2014:


are you saying that this your comment is irrelevant to the subject at hand?



all the men she has been meeting, are they paupers?

simple yes or no

Oh wow! When I wrote that down, I must have misjudged the comprehension capacity of my audience. My sincere apologies please. Allow me to break it down.

When I said a woman of her status needs a man of good financial standing, I was responding to a guy who claimed she wasn't married because she was busy looking for a rich man.

While I was emphasizing the importance of someone in her position marrying a financially independent spouse, what I did not say or even imply was that finances should be the only factor she considers (not sure where you picked that interpretation from, try to read carefully please).

Obviously she has to consider compatibility, character, family background and history, religious alignment, life goals, shared values, physical and emotional attraction and a host of other things.

So @lexy2014, whether the men she has met previously were financially okay or not, while that's important, it certainly isn't the only factor that matters when selecting a spouse.

obailala:
Oh wow! When I wrote that down, I must have misjudged the comprehension capacity of my audience. My sincere apologies please. Allow me to break it down.

When I said a woman of her status needs a man of good financial standing, I was responding to a guy who claimed she wasn't married because she was busy looking for a rich man.

While I was emphasizing the importance of someone in her position marrying a financially independent spouse, what I did not say or even imply was that finances should be the only factor she considers (not sure where you picked that interpretation from, try to read carefully please).

Obviously she has to consider compatibility, character, family background and history, religious alignment, life goals, shared values, physical and emotional attraction and a host of other things.

So @lexy2014, whether the men she has met previously were financially okay or not, while that's important, it certainly isn't the only factor that matters when selecting a spouse.

Can you show me where you were asked to "break it down"?

obailala:
The question you asked seems somewhat irrelevant to the subject at hand

are you saying that this your comment is irrelevant to the subject at hand?

obailala:
A woman of her status doesnt just need 'any' kind of man. The man has to be at a certain independent financial level, else there'd be an imbalance which could rock the foundation of the relationship.

all the men she has been meeting, are they paupers?

simple yes or no

visaclick:
life is more spiritual than u think, nothing is a coincidence.

I like what you posted about Otedola
You'll understand freedom of speech and cyber bulling very soon. I don screenshot

lexy2014:


Can you show me where you were asked to "break it down"?



are you saying that this your comment is irrelevant to the subject at hand?



all the men she has been meeting, are they paupers?

simple yes or no

My last 2 responses to you were in good faith and generously worded in such a manner that even a kindergarten toddler could grasp the message without effort.

If you're still incapable (or perhaps unwilling) to read and comprehend what I've said, and instead insist on repeating the same pointless questions over and over, then honestly, there's nothing more I can do for you. Good day!

obailala:
My last 2 responses to you were in good faith and generously worded in such a manner that even a kindergarten toddler could grasp the message without effort.

If you're still incapable (or perhaps unwilling) to read and comprehend what I've said, and instead insist on repeating the same pointless questions over and over, then honestly, there's nothing more I can do for you. Good day!

can you show me where you were asked for a "generously worded" response?

does verbosity equate substance?

obailala:
Oh wow! When I wrote that down, I must have misjudged the comprehension capacity of my audience. My sincere apologies please. Allow me to break it down.

Can you show me where you were asked to "break it down"?

obailala:
The question you asked seems somewhat irrelevant to the subject at hand

are you saying that this your comment is irrelevant to the subject at hand?

obailala:
A woman of her status doesnt just need 'any' kind of man. The man has to be at a certain independent financial level, else there'd be an imbalance which could rock the foundation of the relationship.

all the men she has been meeting, are they paupers?

simple yes or no

MoneyMan5:


They may be 30 plus or of any age even most 30 plus men won't settle for 30 plus lady unless the lady can offer a lot of things that will benefit his life and career or men that don't have so much options.

Men can have sexual relationship with 30 plus ladies but when it comes to marriage they will think twice about it.

bro forget. Look out for peace of mind and fertility. What if the 20 plus lady show you shege? You might be right but to an extent. A 39 year old can still give you a healthy baby.

Jonathan:

I like what you posted about Otedola
You'll understand freedom of speech and cyber bulling very soon. I don screenshot

i already deleted it bro i take it back.