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(Sexual access without purpose is emotional suicide for men)

Let’s talk like men.

Because many of you are confusing orgasm with victory. You think frequent sex means you’re in control?

No. You’re the one being played.

Every time you sleep with her, something happens in your mind that you can’t control.

You bond.
You soften.
You start to tolerate nonsense.

Your masculine edge? Gone.
Your emotional balance? Hijacked.
Your purpose? Now competing with her body.

She doesn’t need witchcraft. Sex is the spell.

She gets inside your head without touching your brain.
She starts living rent-free in your thoughts.
You wake up thinking of her.
You sleep craving her.
You obey her just to keep the access flowing.

You think you’re in a relationship. But really—you’re in a trap.

You’re negotiating your self-worth in exchange for physical pleasure.
You’re tolerating disrespect because you “don’t want to start over.”
You’re holding on to her out of fear, not love.

The more sex you have, the more emotionally compromised you become.

You ignore the red flags.
You excuse her bad behavior.
You start asking her for direction instead of leading.

And guess what?

She notices.
And she loses respect.

Because no woman respects a man she controls with her body.

You’ve turned from her protector to her puppet.
From a man with a mission, to a man with a mattress.

Some of you are in relationships that only still exist because of sex.

You don’t even like her personality.
You don’t trust her character.
You can’t see a future with her.

But the sex?
It got you hypnotized.
Now you’re stuck in a cycle of emotional suicide.

Let me be clear: Sex isn’t bad. But sex without purpose is dangerous.

If she’s not your wife or part of your long-term vision,
You’re not “winning”—you’re wasting.
Wasting time. Wasting energy.
Wasting destiny.

Discipline is the true flex.

Any man can chase women.
But it takes a real KING to walk away from good sex for a better future.

Control your appetite, or your appetite will control you.

Choose purpose. Not pleasure.
Choose power. Not puppetry.
Choose your mission. Not her mattress.

Because the more sex you have with her, the more power she has to destroy you.

And by the time you realize it…
She’s already walking away with your mind, your energy, and your potential.

Seconded! Especially when they use your privates as toys in the name of "satisfying" you!

Sex was made for husband and wife to copulate but una done abuse this thing called Sex..Now cold water no fit touch una for body,next thing na to climb bed..

Merciful God...

@Op please see the doctor ASAP.

Psychiatric case detected

🌺

Yinmu

Romanticgist:
(Sexual access without purpose is emotional suicide for men)

Let’s talk like men.

Because many of you are confusing orgasm with victory. You think frequent sex means you’re in control?

No. You’re the one being played.

Every time you sleep with her, something happens in your mind that you can’t control.

You bond.
You soften.
You start to tolerate nonsense.

Your masculine edge? Gone.
Your emotional balance? Hijacked.
Your purpose? Now competing with her body.

She doesn’t need witchcraft. Sex is the spell.

She gets inside your head without touching your brain.
She starts living rent-free in your thoughts.
You wake up thinking of her.
You sleep craving her.
You obey her just to keep the access flowing.

You think you’re in a relationship. But really—you’re in a trap.

You’re negotiating your self-worth in exchange for physical pleasure.
You’re tolerating disrespect because you “don’t want to start over.”
You’re holding on to her out of fear, not love.

The more sex you have, the more emotionally compromised you become.

You ignore the red flags.
You excuse her bad behavior.
You start asking her for direction instead of leading.

And guess what?

She notices.
And she loses respect.

Because no woman respects a man she controls with her body.

You’ve turned from her protector to her puppet.
From a man with a mission, to a man with a mattress.

Some of you are in relationships that only still exist because of sex.

You don’t even like her personality.
You don’t trust her character.
You can’t see a future with her.

But the sex?
It got you hypnotized.
Now you’re stuck in a cycle of emotional suicide.

Let me be clear: Sex isn’t bad. But sex without purpose is dangerous.

If she’s not your wife or part of your long-term vision,
You’re not “winning”—you’re wasting.
Wasting time. Wasting energy.
Wasting destiny.

Discipline is the true flex.

Any man can chase women.
But it takes a real KING to walk away from good sex for a better future.

Control your appetite, or your appetite will control you.

Choose purpose. Not pleasure.
Choose power. Not puppetry.
Choose your mission. Not her mattress.

Because the more sex you have with her, the more power she has to destroy you.

And by the time you realize it…
She’s already walking away with your mind, your energy, and your potential.

Not true. The more good sex you give her, the more leverage, control and loyalty you get from her.

Ko just write nonsense keep for here.. dey think like who life don tire.. this na reverse psychology for guys wey women dey turn down. Them go read and be happy. Lol, set awon losers.

Not applicable to me.. may be d next guy.

I can relate though.
If a sex is good, we do get trapped.
Whether it's coming from a gf or wife.
And women do realize when a man gets obsessed with their body.
And they start their manipulation games.
This is why it appears as if some wives controls their husbands.
But, if you embrace self discipline and learning to talk to other women.
You do realize to your chagrin that there are many other sweet pvssies out there.
But that is not the real escape.
The real escape is being sexually disciplined and being nonchalant to women manipulative antics.
Women with goddess body does this much.
That you will ignore their red flags cuz of their charming body.
Examples of such women are actresses and other female celebrities.
Yes, we still have so many beautiful women as gfs/wives that are not in the limelight, yet they still exhibit the brutal women behaviour.



It's a survival game.
And I think you are not a loser if you end up fertilizing the woman and fathering most of her children.
The game is to spread the seed.
Men fall for women manipulative antics like mumu cuz of this.
And if you think you are too smart 🤓 not fall for their manipulation.
You maybe denied a chance to father a child with them.
I'm not a monk bro.
To hell with her red flags.
The goal is to fertilize her and make her a mother for the advancement of human race.
Maybe after the one or two child birth, and she is still strong headed and life threatening, then you can threaten her with divorce.
In all, try to make money and be responsible for the family upkeep.
Also try to live a healthy lifestyle and up your bedroom game.
These will give you upper hand.

Romanticgist:
(Sexual access without purpose is emotional suicide for men)

Let’s talk like men.

Because many of you are confusing orgasm with victory. You think frequent sex means you’re in control?

No. You’re the one being played.

Every time you sleep with her, something happens in your mind that you can’t control.

You bond.
You soften.
You start to tolerate nonsense.

Your masculine edge? Gone.
Your emotional balance? Hijacked.
Your purpose? Now competing with her body.

She doesn’t need witchcraft. Sex is the spell.

She gets inside your head without touching your brain.
She starts living rent-free in your thoughts.
You wake up thinking of her.
You sleep craving her.
You obey her just to keep the access flowing.

You think you’re in a relationship. But really—you’re in a trap.

You’re negotiating your self-worth in exchange for physical pleasure.
You’re tolerating disrespect because you “don’t want to start over.”
You’re holding on to her out of fear, not love.

The more sex you have, the more emotionally compromised you become.

You ignore the red flags.
You excuse her bad behavior.
You start asking her for direction instead of leading.

And guess what?

She notices.
And she loses respect...

All you have described is simply that you see that God punishes the 2 of you because of your fornications.

And that for men, the woman he fornicated with becomes his punisher and tormentor.

Romanticgist:

She doesn’t need witchcraft. Sex is the spell.

She gets inside your head without touching your brain.
She starts living rent-free in your thoughts.
You wake up thinking of her.
You sleep craving her.
You obey her just to keep the access flowing.

Is this not witchcraft?