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In the past, it used to be that men go to war for women, take care of women, provide for them, roof them, feed them and the women only exist without ever having to worry about anything at all.

Today, men do all of these except going to war because there are no war anymore. However, today men are less patient.

Yesterday, I was in transit on the Lagos to Ibadan train and I sat with a young man. He had MBA in the UK and he’s currently working in the finance sector in Lagos. Our conversation drifted to women. And he told me he’s divorced and he only had a son. I probed further. It happen that the woman cheated on him consistently without remorse. He had to do DNA for the boy child. I asked if that’s enough reason for him to leave his wife.

In the past, women cheat on our grandfathers..but the difference our fathers were patient and very understanding. They forgive, forgive and forget.

Today, men leave marriage because a woman cheat? What happens to asking her why she cheat and helping her navigate such phase? What happen to treating her better and watch if she stops cheating or not? What happens to meeting the other man and ask her to stop sleeping with ur wife? You didn’t avail urself these excuses and the best u can come up with is to leave?

Women can do better

Ranting###

You can't beat a child and expect that Child not to cry. Once a cheater always a cheater . Atleast it's better to walk away than cutting her with machete or shooting her with a gun

Why would I ask my woman why she cheated on me in the first place?

First of all, forgiving a person who broke the trust you had on him/her is a sin on its own.......So creating different threads like these just to castigate innocent men of this generation simply because they prefer to walk out of their marriages for the sake of their own peace of mind is one thing I will never be alive to condone

Today, men leave marriage because a woman cheat? What happens to asking her why she cheat and helping her navigate such phase? What happen to treating her better and watch if she stops cheating or not?

I already know you're a simp, but I'm trying to determine if you're also gay or just simply too immature to reason properly yet.

The greatest SIMP of all time.

Xannadu:

I already know you're a simp, but I'm trying to determine if you're also gay or just simply too immature to reason properly yet.

Only a weak man forgives cheating, tuehhhhhhhhh, say she put am back when the thing slide comot

OP you will need to die to make this world a better place. You are very stupid.

Come closer with your big forehead. You deserve a huge knock on it. You be hardcore mumuboy.🥱

Gentleman009:
What happens to asking her why she cheat and helping her navigate such phase? What happen to treating her better and watch if she stops cheating or not? What happens to meeting the other man and ask her to stop sleeping with ur wife?

You want to ask a woman plenty questions instead of throwing her load into the express.

Look, if i dey frrk your wife and you come disturb me I will make sure you spend a few months in the hospital so me and your wife can have enough time to continue where we stopped. I will keep sending you all the recorded soundtracks to uplift your spirit while you are in the hospital. 😁

It’s because marriage is not patient in men anymore😂

If you know that 80% of divorces are initiated by women you won't come up with this topic, you are implying that men are divorcing more than women these days which is wrong

When all men are left with now are witches and daughters of Jezebel, we have to be proactive. I can tolerate bullshit from virtuous women but not from witches, afterall, I tolerate my mother and her manipulations.

Guy you mumu o , which grandfather are you talking, is it the one that in their era any woman caught cheating on her husband has committed a serious abomination?

As in, the funniest part is men don't cheat.

Gentleman009:
In the past, it used to be that men go to war for women, take care of women, provide for them, roof them, feed them and the women only exist without ever having to worry about anything at all.

Today, men do all of these except going to war because there are no war anymore. However, today men are less patient.

Yesterday, I was in transit on the Lagos to Ibadan train and I sat with a young man. He had MBA in the UK and he’s currently working in the finance sector in Lagos. Our conversation drifted to women. And he told me he’s divorced and he only had a son. I probed further. It happen that the woman cheated on him consistently without remorse. He had to do DNA for the boy child. I asked if that’s enough reason for him to leave his wife.

In the past, women cheat on our grandfathers..but the difference our fathers were patient and very understanding. They forgive, forgive and forget.

Today, men leave marriage because a woman cheat? What happens to asking her why she cheat and helping her navigate such phase? What happen to treating her better and watch if she stops cheating or not? What happens to meeting the other man and ask her to stop sleeping with ur wife? You didn’t avail urself these excuses and the best u can come up with is to leave?

Women can do better

Ranting###

Hahaha. This write-up didn't come from a man, or he's just trying to make a joke

Xannadu:

I already know you're a simp, but I'm trying to determine if you're also gay or just simply too immature to reason properly yet.

Chai

Baba you wicked

When i dey read the part wey you quote,i com dey think sai either my eyes dey pain me or pesin mistakenly pour igbo for my peppersoup wey com dey affect wetin i dey read

Gentleman009:
In the past, it used to be that men go to war for women, take care of women, provide for them, roof them, feed them and the women only exist without ever having to worry about anything at all.

Today, men do all of these except going to war because there are no war anymore. However, today men are less patient.

Yesterday, I was in transit on the Lagos to Ibadan train and I sat with a young man. He had MBA in the UK and he’s currently working in the finance sector in Lagos. Our conversation drifted to women. And he told me he’s divorced and he only had a son. I probed further. It happen that the woman cheated on him consistently without remorse. He had to do DNA for the boy child. I asked if that’s enough reason for him to leave his wife.

In the past, women cheat on our grandfathers..but the difference our fathers were patient and very understanding. They forgive, forgive and forget.

Today, men leave marriage because a woman cheat? What happens to asking her why she cheat and helping her navigate such phase? What happen to treating her better and watch if she stops cheating or not? What happens to meeting the other man and ask her to stop sleeping with ur wife? You didn’t avail urself these excuses and the best u can come up with is to leave?

Women can do better

Ranting###

U are a lunatic.

the title of your topic is deficient. you would have said why are people(both gender) not patient in making their marriage work?

Gentleman009:
In the past, it used to be that men go to war for women, take care of women, provide for them, roof them, feed them and the women only exist without ever having to worry about anything at all.

Today, men do all of these except going to war because there are no war anymore. However, today men are less patient.

Yesterday, I was in transit on the Lagos to Ibadan train and I sat with a young man. He had MBA in the UK and he’s currently working in the finance sector in Lagos. Our conversation drifted to women. And he told me he’s divorced and he only had a son. I probed further. It happen that the woman cheated on him consistently without remorse. He had to do DNA for the boy child. I asked if that’s enough reason for him to leave his wife.

In the past, women cheat on our grandfathers..but the difference our fathers were patient and very understanding. They forgive, forgive and forget.

Today, men leave marriage because a woman cheat? What happens to asking her why she cheat and helping her navigate such phase? What happen to treating her better and watch if she stops cheating or not? What happens to meeting the other man and ask her to stop sleeping with ur wife? You didn’t avail urself these excuses and the best u can come up with is to leave?

Women can do better

Ranting###

SIMP Sighted.... Run !!!!!!

gerizzim:
the title of your topic is deficient. you would have said why are people(both gender) not patient in making their marriage work?

This is solely men fault. Imagine policing ur wife sexuality. Marriage will last more if women are allowed to do what they want, sleep with who they want and name any man as father for their kids.

Gentleman009:


This is solely men fault. Imagine policing ur wife sexuality. Marriage will last more if women are allowed to do what they want, sleep with who they want and name any man as father for their kids.

U are just looking for mentions with ur sarcastic post..... Mentions dey turn to money for ur ?

Lol.. .it's those triggered by your post I blame

Dogalmighty17:
OP you will need to die to make this world a better place. You are very stupid.

JESUUUU😲😳😰

Ojagun:


Chai

Baba you wicked

When i dey read the part wey you quote,i com dey think sai either my eyes dey pain me or pesin mistakenly pour igbo for my peppersoup wey com dey affect wetin i dey read

Or maybe one 19 year old brown skinned girl dey rub your chest that time

Gentleman009:
In the past, it used to be that men go to war for women, take care of women, provide for them, roof them, feed them and the women only exist without ever having to worry about anything at all.

Today, men do all of these except going to war because there are no war anymore. However, today men are less patient.

Yesterday, I was in transit on the Lagos to Ibadan train and I sat with a young man. He had MBA in the UK and he’s currently working in the finance sector in Lagos. Our conversation drifted to women. And he told me he’s divorced and he only had a son. I probed further. It happen that the woman cheated on him consistently without remorse. He had to do DNA for the boy child. I asked if that’s enough reason for him to leave his wife.

In the past, women cheat on our grandfathers..but the difference our fathers were patient and very understanding. They forgive, forgive and forget.

Today, men leave marriage because a woman cheat? What happens to asking her why she cheat and helping her navigate such phase? What happen to treating her better and watch if she stops cheating or not? What happens to meeting the other man and ask her to stop sleeping with ur wife? You didn’t avail urself these excuses and the best u can come up with is to leave?

Women can do better

Ranting###

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A cheating woman is dangerous. Since they are very emotional, they can be easily deceived by their new partner to eliminate her husband.
It's only a unrepentant simp that will keep forgiving a cheating woman.

You live once and your happiness and peace of mind is sacrosanct. Marriages were never ordained by any God and, for better for worse is conditional on your happiness and peace of mind. I met a white lady who found happiness in her third marriage after being abused by her previous spouses.

Divorce is a legitimate option if the marriage is not working out or if the couples are incompatible, it is ok to it you made a mistake than to live miserably together and bring up kids in a toxic environment. For better for worse only works when the two genuinely loves each other and there is true friendship. Most couple flash fake smiles while ing through hell in their marriages. Use your brain and find happiness for yourself.

Gentleman009:
In the past, it used to be that men go to war for women, take care of women, provide for them, roof them, feed them and the women only exist without ever having to worry about anything at all.

Today, men do all of these except going to war because there are no war anymore. However, today men are less patient.

Yesterday, I was in transit on the Lagos to Ibadan train and I sat with a young man. He had MBA in the UK and he’s currently working in the finance sector in Lagos. Our conversation drifted to women. And he told me he’s divorced and he only had a son. I probed further. It happen that the woman cheated on him consistently without remorse. He had to do DNA for the boy child. I asked if that’s enough reason for him to leave his wife.

In the past, women cheat on our grandfathers..but the difference our fathers were patient and very understanding. They forgive, forgive and forget.

Today, men leave marriage because a woman cheat? What happens to asking her why she cheat and helping her navigate such phase? What happen to treating her better and watch if she stops cheating or not? What happens to meeting the other man and ask her to stop sleeping with ur wife? You didn’t avail urself these excuses and the best u can come up with is to leave?

Women can do better

Ranting###

Just imagine what you penned down @ the bolded. There's no doubt that you were birthed by a cheat.. Don't make yourself a hare brained skunk with foolish write up such as this post.

Which forefathers has patience? Forefathers that uses thunderbolt when they suspect foul movements and other forms of DNA to ascertain if the child belongs to them

Because women cheated on YOUR OWN GRANDFATHER, donkey years ago doesn't mean you too should accept that as a young man, if you choose to be cheated on and betrayed, go on with that but don't encourage other men to accept that nonsense all in the name of being patient.

I saw the video of the man whose wife bleeps another guy in a truth or dare game, the husband met the fucker and he prostrated to him to great him, there and then I wish I had superpowers, to rid the world people like you and that foolish husband

My own grandfather has multiple wives, he was a successful farmer and hunter, built his mansion and made his name, which still command respect today despite his demise, none of his wives dare cheated or ever dreamt to cheat on him, Infact he was so successful that he had concubines too, he was survived with 18 children, over 30 grandchildren and a number of great grand children I can't , since his demise the number of his grand children and great grand children had increased greatly, he never needed A DNA because then women were ive of their husbands, loyal and submissive while the men took great care of them by providing and protecting them.

Because of woke mentality, women now think they are equal to men and as such can do as they desire, Including betraying the trust of their husbands, disrespecting them, or even giving them bastards as children, no man should tolerate that, you are better off single with peace of mind than to end of women who will only be a liability to you and still Bleep a random guy outside and bring the baby to you

You are riding on a train when you are supposed to have an aeroplane or a private jet.
You sef go think say you don arrive unto say U dey inside train
Between You and the other divorcee, I don't know who is more funny.

This remind me of one post here by whatdowonenwant, his wife cheated, he caught her, begged her to stay cos he was ready to forgive. Last last, she still left.

Even women will not agree with you on this.

If you are a man, something is really wrong with you.