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My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

I Have always said that the devil (lucifer) is a very smart guy that knows how to Distract humans. He Invents evil, Modifies Iniquity, Flash it to humans in their homes through his agents, Make it look harmless and ordinary, Watch humans without knowledge engage in it in the Name of Fun. Land them into Eternal Damnation and Destruction in Hell. Finally Laugh and Mock them in Hell. Never give that guy a chance, he will smash your destiny and throw you into hell.


A good Marriage counseling will help tremendously.



Best of Luck!!

Another episode of "Things That Never Happened"

ObamaMessi, you need to get a job and get busy.

A terrible fiction.

fman:
U r a fooolish SIMP just like moh247

I don't understand the reason behind this misguided comment.

GeorgWashinton:
How don't understand the reason behind this misguided comment.

Check people's comment history before engaging them... This one is a Nairaland lunatic nuisance

Try starve him of attention and continue your thread


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amnesty7:
A terrible fiction.

It is better to remain silent than to say what's not true.

Moh247:


Check people's comment history before engaging them... This one is a Nairaland lunatic nuisance

Try starve him of attention and continue your thread

I just ed this few weeks ago and someone is equating me with another . Is this how this forum works? Are there no s to take charge? Please who is that Obama abi Messi?

silvoclaira:


It's such an terrible emotional experience







A good Marriage counseling will helptremendously.



Best of Luck in recovering your wife/love back

Thank you sir

Lies!

GeorgWashinton:
Thank you sir

Female here....
Anyway enjoy these along with your breakfast okay

Moh247:


Check people's comment history before engaging them... This one is a Nairaland lunatic nuisance

Try starve him of attention and continue your thread

keep wailing!!

silvoclaira:


Female here....

Anyway enjoy these along with your breakfast okay

Is this supposed to be a mockery?

Moh247:


Check people's comment history before engaging them... This one is a Nairaland lunatic nuisance

Try starve him of attention and continue your thread

keep wailing!!
That's why you can't differentiate fiction from reality!!!
Moh247 between me and you, who is more comprehensive?

My brother is not your fault nah, or is there something you are not telling us..

Pls allow her go, make sure your kids stay with you...

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Sit her down and talk to her. Get trusted friends to do same too. Pray too.

IAMBOSS1990:


Sit her down and talk to her. Get trusted friends to do same too. Pray too.

Although I sat her down and talked to her but seems to yield no fruit.

I'm going on the second idea. Thank you.

You've lost her already.

Women make references to how their men relate with them when gisting.in your own case her gist mates have confirmed you are blindly in love and she's free to get away with anything.

It is a painful decision but it is going to get worst if you don't let her go

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Reason she's holding u ransom...

As a man, even if u re weak or desperate never show it to Ur wife, always act like u dont care so much, act like psychos.. believe me Ur marriage will always go well, just don't maltreat or beat Ur woman, treat her right and give her what u re capable of...then add small small weyreyism to the equation and see how Ur marriage will be balanced.

Oga, what did you do?

When you act weak in front of women they will take advantage of you, you are so emotional and your wife can see that in you. She knows you love her so much and probably that why she is doing what she is doing. I tell men most times dont over pamper and over love your woman.Love her but dnt over show it. Baba you need to stand your ground and act like the man of the house and put in her place if she misbehave i love men who dont take shit from
Women. Atimes try to bring out the beast in you it will help them reset their brain.

OlawaleBammie:


Reason she's holding u ransom...

As a man, even if u re weak or desperate never show it to Ur wife, always act like u dont care so much, act like psychos.. believe me Ur marriage will always go well, just don't maltreat or beat Ur woman, treat her right and give her what u re capable of...then add small small weyreyism to the equation and see how Ur marriage will be balanced.

Thank you so much.

I will try this once my marriage gets on track.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Guy, please don't listen to advice of all those small boys using their mum's phone to type trash here. If you believe God, pray and fast over this. It could be a sign of imminent crisis. The enemy is at work, going by your story, if true. God is lacking in many homes today which is why they divorce anyhow. No marriage without crisis bro. I was once there and I overcame it. I almost lost my beautiful home I built for over a decade.

Fast and pray for 2 days, at least and see changes. Don't over react. She'd come back to her senses. Good luck

Eriokanmi:
Guy, please don't listen to all those small buys using their mum's phone.to.type trash. If you believe God. Pray and fast over this. God is lacking in many homes today which is why they divorce anyhow. No marriage without crisis bro. I was once there amd I overcome it. I almost lost my beautiful home I built for over a decade.

Fast and okay for 2 days and see changes. Don't over react. She'd Co.e back to her senses. Good luck

Thank you for these words of encouragement.

I will fast and see how it goes.

GeorgWashinton:
Thank you for these words of encouragement.

I will fast and see how it goes.

Yea..that's all you need at this point not any marriage counsellor, going by your story if true,

GeorgWashinton:
Thank you so much.

I will try this once my marriage gets on track.

How did I forget to tell u I am a married man myself?? So don't think I am not experienced that is why I am saying this..

I am not a relationship expert OP but I want to know;
<<how was the relationship before it went south?
<< When did you start noticing some changes or is there an event that triggered the changes?

Richy4:
I am not a relationship expert OP but I want to know;
<<how was the relationship before it went south?
<< When did you start noticing some changes or is there an event that triggered the changes?

My marriage was peaceful and built on solid love. Just late last year did I started seeing something different.
There's no cause for that.

I don't see any reason a man should love his wife that much in marriage, how can you show your wife that you love her so much even in marriage. now you will be crying in her presence that you need her and she will start forming john Cena. my advice goes this way, if you need her just pray and also call other men of God to help in prayers and fast and believe only in your prayers do not mind whatever she is doing and do as if she is not existing in your life anymore..... and cook what your children will eat and take in charge of her duties and responsibilities at home, do not even mind if she comes in or goes out then if she doesn't return to her senses then you know it runs on their lineage or blood

Why won't it fall apart?

When you people marry for lust and looks.

When you marry a whóre that has been ran through and ed around by multiple men.


You marry a broken and damaged whóre


Girls who don't have a responsible father figure in their life

Girls with multiple exes


MOST OF THESE WHÓRES WILL EVEN TAKE REVENGE FOR WHAT OTHER MEN BEFORE YOU DID TO THEM ON YOU..



MARRYING A VIRGIN IS STILL THE BEST OPTION...

ANY GIRL WITH MORE THAN 2 BODYCOUNT IS NOT A WIFE MATERIAL.

Did you marry her a virgin?