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tcalc:
it isn’t about money, i just prefer quiet ceremonies

Ok be more flexible, the wedding is not only about what you want let her enjoy herself too in her style. I thought it's about financial concerns.

Communicate your budget and let her know your limit so she can adjust or make up the difference

You are just wasteful and not budgeting properly.

10 x 30 = 300k

Explore alternatives, find best local food markets around you, do bulk purchase and budget monthly,

This vdm has to learn how to talk but seems he is not educated. If he is educated he should stop behaving like a tout while doing his job n stop threatening PPL.

Stop responding to everything although it is making him more relevant.

ispreloaded:
baba wike ...,

Yes that is why Tinubu is working with him, he has the heart and ruthlessness required in Nigerian politics.

Someone that won't mind to die or see PPL die to take power.

If you want to take something from a mad man you will act like a mad man not like a sane man

Honestly Peter Obi is too soft for Nigerian politics and won't succeed with his Mr nice man attitude.

Only a brutal politician can take power from APC

Vanity upon vanity......

Life is more about legacy and impact not about who is richest

Lol begging an oppressor never works. It will make him to oppress further so except it is resisted he will increase further

Those corrupt kids don't have the capacity for such protest

Your first priority is to buy cash producing assets, business or investment. Cash flow is king.

Oga foreign coach welcome

He is only saying that Governor Otti will move to APC because that is the only way it will happen but that is after winning re election under LP.

You PPL should learn to think outside the box not always emotional

The only language the govt understands

Nigerians are too ive to demand change

Most parents desire to have one of their children around them in old age which may not be realistic most times.

In your own case there is nothing serious you are doing in Ibadan to warrant leaving and Ibadan is not really such a place to secure employment easily.

Why not strategies better and plan to leave when you secure employment at any location while doing the i/t training around your parents location.

Naija lazy youth

Their discussion football, celebrity gossip, alcohol or women. Lazy Naija youth.

;De

But it didn't stop you from having a child out of wedlock

Congratulations

You have a million but not yet a millionaire

A millionaire is someone with assets that can produce millions. Eg you have 4 Keke on the road that produces millions for you yearly or house with tenants.

But I understand your feeling. If you are focused and good at investment you can hit 10m in few years time.

My definition of a millionaire is someone whose investments or businesses can generate at least 1m monthly whether he works or not, that is 12m per annum minimum.

ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.

Give her the money weekly like 150k weekly for better management. She is wasting it since you are giving it once as the big man that you are

ozo13:
how

He has been settled, the minimum wage is now 62k

Wakatumbit:
My wife gave birth and her mom has been staying with us for the past 3 months, we have dedicated our baby already and my wife has even learnt to bath the baby and do things by herself when it comes to the baby.

I don't have an issue with the mom staying with us but ever since she came my wife's siblings has been coming to the house, her elder brother and sister and sometimes they stay up to a week.

With the two of them that makes us five in the house and feeding five people in this economy is not easy. I just looked at my bank statement this evening and in the last 2 weeks I've spent over 250k on expenses, from feeding to fuel, to baby food. If it's just me and my wife we won't be spending that much.


I'm thinking of telling my wife to tell her brother and sister to go leaving only they mom and they shouldn't be coming at all, they can visit but they shouldn't stay.

My family doesn't come around a lot and when they do visit, they don't even stay the night.

But I don't want to make it look like I'm a bad person, so how do I chase them away codedly

Make them uncomfortable and they will leave. Show attitude, be mute and unfriendly. Stop providing like before, show signs of lack and they will flee.

As long as you keep acting like dangote they will keep visiting at least to eat well

Don't on gen anytime they are around and keep a mean face.

This thing is not hard if you no be sisy

Finidi has no right to blame osihmen for his failure. He acted unprofessional likewise osihmen's tantrum was childish

No be 80 years be this

Everything Na money, even this old hag thinking like a kid

Religion has damaged alot of Africans, all they do is pray and hope for miracle.

Humans control this world not God, God has left everything to us. He said be fruitful and dominate the world.

This can only happen via self development and working, taking actions and creative thinking.

We are god here on earth, BC God made us in his image.

I believe in God and prayers but it's mainly for heavenly matters.

jmoore:
The price of garri keeps increasing. A paint of garri is 4,000 naira.

Any cheap alternative to garri that one can use to eat soup?

Just learn to be satisfied with half cup, eat less so that a paint can last for you.

Esthered:
Please I want to ask for advice on behalf of a friend with 4m.
1. He has invested in TBs earlier in the year. He isn't sure if he wants to invest in TBs again as he has no land asset.
2. He's contemplating buying a land in the outskirts of Lagos for capital appreciation.
3. He has a land in his hometown gifted by the dad that's undeveloped and was called by his uncle to build on it for the purpose of renting but has his reservation as the location is not a commercial area but town.
4. He's trying to discover himself for a business that he can do to earn a side hustle.
Kindly advise.

Let him do mutual fund for liquidity sake while searching patiently for a land of 2m and a business or investment of 2m for regular cash flow.

The money should be working while you are searching for the next thing to put it into.