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That's the church she was attending before we got married, so I don't want to stop her in order for it not to seems like I'm wicked and for her not to call me names.

Yesterday she reminded me that after our marriage my family forced her to do thanks giving at our church. She has been saying this for long, but stopped, until yesterday.

I told her that doing thanks giving at our church is now a bad thing or something that's forceful?

She cried a lot yesterday because of our argument of this naming.

Same tears she used in forcing me into getting married to her when I wasn't in anyway ready. [/quote Do I have to remind you tone the man? She's very manipulative. Stand your ground.

So how does the twerking and dancing affect your life? I tire. But seriously, Politicians need to take their offices seriously.

I totally agree with OP. The presence of a male, or father is very important. See how all of them turned out.

Good health, a promotion, a bouncing baby girl. Am grateful.

I wanna be a billionaire so freaking bad.. buy all of the things I never had...

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This epistle reminds me of someone making excuses for cheating their spouse. You must have dated your wife for a while before getting married, now why are you ranting. She gave the foodstuff to her mum and am sure she must have mentioned it before but you dismissed it. Did you try to talk to her and hear her out? And pls, enough with the liability bullshit. He's your son for crying out loud. Do you know how it feels to be rejected by your own blood?Your son will grow up and will someday look up to you. I hope it will not be with disdain. Grow up man, you are just pathetic.Apologise to your wife and keep your zipper up!!

Chacha is too dramatic. Haba, take a bow from social media and deal with this so called mental illness. you have children. Also focus on them because if care is not taken , you may also harm them.

[quote author=Kollins11 post=116996368]MEN! Try and get yourself a foreign girlfriend when you're ready to mingle. Even if it's a beautiful girl from Bangladesh.

Stay away from Nigerian girls. They are nothing but sex objects and slaves always walking around with overused kpekus and damaged womb.

Foreign girls are hardworking and very ive.
Nigerian girls are liabilities and very lazy. Do not generalize and be biased. We have a lot of women who their partners wholeheartedly. Beat it.

I feel for you and understand your plight., But you don't have to dwell there. Make the change, if you feel timid and boring, buy good books to build up your confidence, practice being confident and you will get to your greatest potential. Learn a skill. Learn how to smile. Learn how to draw boundaries and keep them. Life is sweet o. You have a great future ahead of you.

She's strong, l will give her that. Some men are evil! . End time days[color=#000099][/color]!!

BYE!!

So sad. I can imagine their plight especially the 6 year old. Please let's all say NO to rape.

Very emotional and touching story. Am moved to tears. I still can't believe there could be people as giving as this one. Bravo brother, keep it up!. Av learnt a valuable lesson.

Am sure my Aba bros are warming up for the latest product in town, you kno there's always a substitute to almost everything in Naija. I applaud the western world for their thoughtfulness.

[b][/b] girl, I understand how you feel. Av traveled the same road before. I advice you to concentrate on getting a securing a job and establishing yourself. Besides, what makes you think it will work out now, given that you had to quit before you traveled. He's not gonna change, unless you are willing to accept him just as he is. Well, goodluck

Travelled all day, had to change cars more than twice cos they developed faults, finally arrived yikpata camp in kwara state by 9pm, ed d longest line of queues I have ever seen, slept only two hrs after d struggl for a flat matress... The rest was history

190: ex's are meant to be found in the gutter

Thats where they belong!

Its a fact that most ex's in our past today were picked from the gutter
maybe except a few of them

so why worry if calling it quits wit them

U just helping yourself outta their miserable lives anyway

That's a mean thing to say. For an ex to belong to a "gutter" that means you too are from the "gutter" cos like minds flow together.
Its normal to feel guilty,but that should not be enough reason to go back. Every experience has a lesson to teach. So move on.

I visited a friend recently, only to meet her in a state of deep concern- her husband of eight years had another family elsewhere. His frequent 'visits' to his home town was to ensure that the 'other woman' was doing fine with his kids. The funny thing is that they lack nothing. My friend has a lovely set of kids and runs a good business. She's at the point of breaking down. What should I tell her? Have you ever lied to your wife?

I visited a friend recently, only to meet her in a state of deep concern- her husband of eight years had another family elsewhere. His frequent 'visits' to his home town was to ensure that the 'other woman' was doing fine with his kids. The funny thing is that they lack nothing. My friend has a lovely set of kids and runs a good business. She's at the point of breaking down. What should I tell her?

berem: i think am tired of hearing stories about bomb blast! next story pls!!

Then why are you here? Is it because none of your family is affected? Don't be so selfish.nobody is forcing you to read it

Thanks OP, this is a wonderful piece. Am particularly touched. It covers almost every aspect of my life I have to work on. God bless you man

Hello Nairalanders, am a single lady in a relationship of two years. Recently, we had to part because of his work. I met this new guy and he's swept me off my feet. Against my will, am beginning to fall in love with him. I enjoy every second we spend together,I feel much more comfortable around him as we play and chat like kids.
My boyfriend is ok, but he's more touchy and sensitive. I have to watch every word I say to him cos he just flares up at the slightest provocation. I find myself loving him less and less every day.
The new guy is asking for my hand in marriage but am scared. He's had series of girlfriends in the past and am afraid of ing a disease, yet I miss him whenever we are apart. We agreed. never to have sex till we get married. Am confused

Hello Nairalanders, am a single lady in a relationship of two years. Recently, we had to part because of his work. I met this new guy and he's swept me off my feet. Against my will, am beginning to fall in love with him. I enjoy every second we spend together,I feel much more comfortable around him as we play and chat like kids.
My boyfriend is ok, but he's more touchy and sensitive. I have to watch every word I say to him cos he just flares up at the slightest provocation. I find myself loving him less and less every day.
The new guy is asking for my hand in marriage but am scared. He's had series of girlfriends in the past and am afraid of ing a disease, yet I miss him whenever we are apart. We agreed. never to have sex till we get married. Am confused

Wily+Wily:
@Kewt,
Reject going to that terrorist islamic rats desert land, all moslem there are terrorist and ready to kill any Christian, better for you not to go there, majority of Moslem in Zanfara have very long beards like Osama bin Ladin they are the most dangerous Terrorist.

Willy, if I were you,I'd stop to think before saying what I know nothing about. I grew up in zammfara, infact my family still resides there. Gusau is very peaceful, as there has NEVER been any crisis even when Sharia was introduced. Well, as for where you can stay, tudun wada area is mostly preferable as a lot of christians reside there. Don't allow fear to stop you from achieving your goals. I wish you a happy stay there. God bless you.

Miss EZ:

God bless you. Very well stated

This is such a poor excuse for the rot in the educational system. Haven't people written and ed Maths and English in the past, why is this a problem now. As someone pointed out, the standard of learning has dropped drastically. Its so bad that even University graduates cannot speak or write correctly. We make such flimsy excuses as to why that is the case e.g. English is not my first language. Agreed. But if you spend your whole life speaking a particular language, receiving educational training in the said language, and after 21 years you cannot communicate properly or formally in that language, what does that say about the person? It is either the person was negligent of his/her studies, or the educational system failed that person.

I think that in Nigeria, it is a little bit of both. Students do not pay attention to their studies anymore, and the educational system is steadily declining. That is why an educator can come out in public and make such stupid statements. Educators need to sit up and think about how they can improve the system. All this mediocrity needs to stop, if not Nigeria will never be a main contender in the international market in of knowledge base and practical applications that translate to the ability to provide much needed services.

Well said dude!