NewStats: 3,264,144 , 8,182,759 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 08:51 PM 684a62

Veste:
Marry a nigerian, Ghana or Zimbabwe woman in the USA, UK or Canada and regret your life. I warn those planning to do it now or in the future.

I thought Ghanaian and Zimbabwean women are more feminine and humble?😳

SonOfWords:


Day you realize this as a man, is when you begin to actually "live".

I realized a long time ago ..that why I'm still aLIVE

olawaleatanda:

It's better this way...you develop yourself..become more savage and independent...so you don't ever need anyone's opinion to be happy or sad.

And since you don't trust anyone, no one will ever use you again....

olawaleatanda:
To be a man is a lonely road,No one cares to know the pain that you invest just to get Rich 💔

Just like the fans blaming the footballer

No one gives a shit about your struggles as a man.

You are all you got!

emmaodet:
STRENGTH ISN’T A CHOICE. IT’S THE ONLY OPTION LEFT.

They say, What doesn’t kill u makes u stronger.

But they forget to mention it also makes u colder.
More savage. More guarded. Less trusting.

Life doesn’t build strong men through comfort.
It breaks them first.
It humbles them.
It tests them with betrayal, heartbreak, loss, and silence.

You trusted too much? Now u read people twice.
You loved too deeply? Now your heart has armor.
You were too kind? Now you move with calculation.

Because once you’ve been used, overlooked, betrayed, and left for dead
You stop hoping for rescue.
You become the weapon.

You realize strength isn’t a vibe.
It’s not a trend.
It’s the only thing that keeps you from being stepped on.

So let them talk.
Let them say you’ve changed.
Let them call you cold, heartless, different.
They weren’t there in the trenches with you.
They didn’t see what it took to rebuild what they destroyed.

Because here’s the brutal truth:

The world doesn’t care about your pain.
It only respects the beast that pain built.

So stay cold.
Stay calculated.
Stay dangerous with purpose.

As for me bro, pain taught me silence.
Silence taught me strength.
n Strength made me wise.
Now I walk with depth.

Your peace is earned through power.
Your healing comes with scars.
Master yourself, or suffer with the rest.

The pathway to SelfMastery is the way.

As copied

Once again...

💯...

Especially the cold, hard, brutal, merciless part.

No one gives a shit about you as a man except you. You are all you got!!

emmaodet:
Isolation is the price a man pays when he starts to fix his life.

💯

emmaodet:
Nobody checks on men until they’re successful again.

Go broke for a minute.

Watch how fast the love turns into silence.

This is why men grind in private and trust very few.

💯

able20:

Mr. Don't forget that the Foreign Embassies are monitoring events in Nigeria
The president of a country determines the approval rating, not the governors

In the USA, Russia, China and Europe, they don't talk about the governors.
Nigeria has a weak, Clueless and corrupt President
They know that Nigerians are running away

Nonsense

Eriokanmi:
Leadership plays a good role. Take it or you leave it. People got approved much more during buhari-led istration than now. Ask those who travelled to usa, UK and Canada during that period. Some mistakes were even overlooked. From.may 2023 onwards, applicants who had more than enough documents got rejected, including some of those who had been traveling before.

In some circumstances, they gave Nigerian applicants some considerations and fair-hearing during Buhari's istration than now. People got call from the embassy to send more documents, etc.

I stood as a guarantor for a married lady who was going to meet her husband in the USA. She applied as a student. I gave her a statement of 5m naira and the VO told her the amount was too low, compared to the embassy's requirements, asking her if she could get another sponsor that had enough funds. We thought they won't look at the statement. My story always sounds fake to many nay-sayers but let God judge me on this if it's a lie. She said yes and the VO said she should take back her documents, now gave her a 221g form and asked her to respond in a matter of days. We gathered up the money and built up the same to 15m naira, this was in 2019. I was the one that took her documents to the DHL office in isolo for submission as instructed by the VO cos her job dodnt allow her. Her visa was approved.

When you have a decent leader in place, you get some considerations and reconsiderations as citizens, booth home and abroad. These people know us more than we think we know ourselves.

This makes no sense....

descarado:
Continue bashing women through your forum seun.
They are leaving in their numbers. It will soon become all male forum. This forum shows the toxicity of Nigerian men towards women. There are some guys I ire their intellectual but get disappointed when they discuss issues about women. In other words, they are like the rest of Nigerian men who just can't function without stepping on women. Don't know if it's religion, rigid culture and low self esteem that causes that.

You will know the real man around you when you start making close to what he makes in a year, or the same and above what he makes. It doesn't hide. That insecurity will just appear from nowhere. Even pastors. That's why they preach submission and this is Africa everyday. As if they know the tribes in 54 countries in Africa and their cultures.

You AGAIN!!!

Karlifate:
A woman receives so much compliment that the smallest negative opinion wounds her ego

A man is insulted so often that he cherish even a little compliment.


Men & Women are NOT the same 💯

💯

DrAda:
I understand their need to attract the opposite sex but what I will never understand is the willingness to put one's life at risk to attain that.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Mtchewww

Allthingswork:
Mr luminouz, himself... Been years since you last mentioned me in a comment and vice versa . Hope you're good....

So how would you like to know more , cuz I really don't know like what more I can add to the story. Unless you want locations and site, and maybe you want an expedition in the future?

Lol...so you know me!!!

I'm good.

I'm always curious about supernatural beings.
If I could get locations, and site...or any other useful information,I'd be grateful.
Thanks

Twoclans:


😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘☹️😘

Lumi lumi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You enjoying the match?
😁

Twoclans:
What a goallllllllllllllllll


4:0

Go away😡

Samantha125:
Single mothers have been around since the beginning of humanity, even your forefathers had concubines whom they had children with.

And who knows? maybe if you dig deeper into your ancestral background, you might find that you're the great great great great grandson of one concubine from centuries ago...

Urgh...

So crass....

Allthingswork:
I saw a LIVE MERMAID in a gutter close to the gate of NAPO Private School, Maitama in the year 1996.

Mermaids are real and most are violent and aggressive. She had long claws, hair that looks like the popular Brazillian or Peruvian hair wigs that babes wear. She was nude from the waist up. She had black gutter sewage filth all over her top side and tail area. She looked drained and upset. She was wriggling left to right, clawing the air around her ( since she couldn't get to us the little children, some fifteen to twenty feet away from her ). A local dog (ekuke) kept barking at her. It didn't go too close to her, but I'm sure dogs can identify spirit beings.

I wish I could see such a sighting again. I wasn't scared that much that day. It was fascinating. Teachers came and chased us inside but I had already seen everything there was to see.

In the end, she wasn't caught. She lowered herself back into the round opening of the gutter and returned wherever the hell she came from.

I'll go there on an expedition hunt in future when I'm really wealthy and have enough people to assemble to go comb the entire area in search of her and her kind. There is a nearby pond close to the place we sighted her, so, I'm guessing she might still be around. They don't die afterall. If I'm to put an age to her, she looked to be around 30-45 years of age. Going by what I saw, ooh.

Is that why marine had disturbed me all these years, because I saw one of theirs and lived to tell people the story?? Now, they claimed I'm a mariner too, bla bla. Haha. I'm a child of yahwe, jareh.
But I really want to see more mermaids, ooh. I am not afraid. My state has tales of mermaids being caught and shipped to the white man abroad. Also tales of mermaid sightings in and out of water. I'll go on a search someday and yes, nothing bad will happen to me. Destiny child. 😁

This fascinated me.

I'd like to know more

UyaiIncomparabl:


So, since you're sure with all the convictions you have that she's the one for you, why are you then here seeking for validation or second opinion?

If the majority of people here dissuade your motive about the girl, would you go ahead with their opinions?

You seem to have misconstrued life choices at 33.

Yen yen yen...go away Uyai!

obembet:
Nothing like Manhood... It sweet die..


I tasted it and I have not regret till now

A man masquerading as a woman.

Get sense bro

GOFRONT:


Dont under estimate the power of deeq.......ThankGod for giving me functional deeq

But we don't know that!!!

You could be capping nigga!

OluwatobiJoshua:



You can't know the nature of women and you will still be simping. Probably you are yet to learn a real life lesson about the nature of women. Never feel different about a particular lady, all girls are the same, old or young, so you mUst deal with them discreetly. No compromising your core believes and values. It might be easy for me because I am also a Stoic, I don't share weak religion with most people which effeminate most men.

You nailed it!!!

emmaodet:
Quote of the day -

I don't care if it's lonely at the top, it is lonely at the bottom too.
At least at the top, I can pay my own bills.

So moral of the story:

As a man, it is lonely everywhere.

We4all:
Fear deeper life church . I pity those who get married to people they percieve as christians. They are always in for a rude shock.

Oh really?

Tell me more

Winneygirl:
So you cannot sit with your wife and map out how to get a different job?
You cannot review her CV with her and look out for more flexible jobs?
You think she likes working herself to the bones? How much do you have to give her to start up a business?
Do you know how much capital is needed to adequately start something viable? What of the time needed to grow the business?

Instead of being practical and taking the right action to safeguard your family income, you are here moving funny.
If your income alone was enough to keep your family afloat, she will not be working so hard.

Look inwards. Be practical and start looking for a more flexible job for her.

Rubbish as always