I can imagine how you feel. Find a place in your heart to forgive your husband.
The real issue there is the pointer to your sister, so by all means, keep your sister away from your home & your husband, and you can respectfully have some discussion on this with your husband, and let him him that that such can never be acceptable by you.
PaigeTaylor:
Hello house. I'm too angry to type. Been married for 10 years with a kid. 10 long hard years.
He always assures me and portrays himself as a faithful man. I have never suspected him of committing adultery, not because he's not capable, but because I wanted to give him benefit of doubt. I wanted trust to be in my marriage because I'm extremely faithful to him. He disvirgined me on my wedding night.
But he does A LOT of flirting on social media. s his phone from me. This has caused a lot of problems between us, almost leading to marriage break up many times, until people advised me to stay off his phone, which I did. I lost my job since February and have been unable to get another one.
Now I'm learning some soft skills online, using my phone but it got to a point where I couldn't proceed because it's an old phone. I told him yesterday morning that I would love to use his phone, he said ok when he returned from work.
Only for me to go to his browser to enter a website address, I started seeing past searches from him.
LOVE SMS YOU CAN SEND TO UR CRUSH
LOVE MESSAGES YOU CAN SEND TO UR EX GIRLFRIEND.
The one that shook me to the bone is, HOW TO SEDUCE MY SISTER INLAW.
She came to visit two weeks back. She is very beautiful and plump and he has always told me he had a crush on her. So I know.
And those internet searches are RECENT.
I feel so disgusted by his presence now, so much that I don't allow his body to touch mine on bed. I feel for my daughter, she's just 6 years and I don't have any money to take care of her. He doesn't take care of me either, but I have put up with him, I have struggled and suffered with him all these years. Only to see this on his phone. I'm beyond depressed.
He's talking of us celebrating our 10 years anniversary by December and thinking of inviting few family and friends. BUT I'M NOT INTERESTED. The love is dead. I've been played all along.
your wife may be the typical Nigerian woman but not the talking type.
good that you are investing & to her knowledge and she appears to understand.
I suggest you increase the upkeep allowance which may not be enough but she refuse to complain, buy her gift from time to time and watch how she would become clingy, and no longer tired. Just my two cents
ADURA123:
Good evening fellow NL ,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.
I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.
My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.
My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back
Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...
It breaks my heart to see that these people are yet to repent of the tactics they used in Lagos during the peaceful demonstration of #EndSARS that led to loss of hundreds of lives(mass burial victims) and wanton destruction of properties.
Did they seek the consent of the husband & children before parading her?
Parading her can cause more harm/adverse effect to the husband & children than the act itself. They should have allowed the husband to deal with this quietly in his own way as he deem fit.
A married woman experiences public humiliation within her community for allegedly engaging in an extramarital affair with her neighbour.
A video making the rounds on social media captured the moment individuals of a community paraded a mother of six (6) over an alleged affair.
While specific details about the event remain unclear, reports suggest that the woman, who is said to be pregnant, was discovered in a compromising situation with her suspected lover.
The video, which has gained significant attention, shows the woman being scorned and paraded while being taunted and insulted.
I am so emotionally attached to my nieces & nephews
But I think maybe because I am single(mature) and have no kids of my own. but this might not be true. I have always loved children.
Right from my days in Uni ( I was the one to leave school to go spend days with my sister at hospital during delivery, same with my 2 sisters in-law. My thinking that maybe that is why I am world's best aunty, even to all other nieces & nephews.
Samantha124:
This is the issue I have, I find myself being emotionally attached to my nephews and nieces.. I think them and I have this special bond to a point that most of them also feel comfortable opening up to me.
This past weekend my nephew was taken to an initiation school, I just had to travel all the way from Durban to Polokwane just to see him before he leaves... The last time I left home the relationship between me and my mom wasn't going so well, but my father managed to talk to me and asked that I forgive her even though it's not easy... I was able to put everything aside for the sake of my nephew because I wanted to see him before he leaves for the initiation school.
Those who may wonder what an initiation school is, it's a cultural school whereby kids who are about to enter puberty, or are already in puberty are taken in order to be taught cultural virtues and principles of transitioning from childhood to teenhood.
His mother brought him to the family house on Saturday afternoon, I spent the entire afternoon gisting with him and he was nervous about the whole thing of going to an initiation school... I had to calm him down.. They were already late because other kids had left with their guardians to the mountains in the morning... My mother then called the royal house to make some inquiries and she was told that they could bring the child the following morning which was Sunday.
The following morning my parents and my sister along with my nephew left for the royal house in the village, the boy's father met them there and from there, the boy and the father were taken to the mountains, where the boy will stay with the others for four weeks.
The father just wanted to drop his son in the mountains and leave afterwards, but he was told that he must be around for at least 2 days to make sure that his son is well settled.
It was so difficult seeing him leave and I couldn't hold my tears, he's just so adorable and I sometimes wonder if he'll be able cope with the living conditions in the mountains for four weeks.
I ed of how he talked about wanting a PlayStation when he visited the family house back in December, so I bought a PlayStation 5 for him as his graduation gift from the initiation school, they'll be having a party at his home when he returns, but I won't be able to go because of the protection order I have against his father... I gave the gift to my sister for her to give it to him.
The relationship between his father and I may not be good, but I love the boy so much like he's my own.
My other brother in law has also talked of how his children look up to me...
So I'd like to know if you guys have also found yourself emotionally attached to your siblings' children.
you don't have the money for rent which is due in few Months. So the strategy is to change accommodation to a more affordable one(from one bedroom to self contain) or change the location to a cheaper neighborhood
It depend on the nature of his village, if it is a peaceful suburb with some economic activities, maybe you may appraise your situation, but if it is a place that can add no value to your lives but the negatives - wise up!
momsloved:
Good afternoon everyone, pls I urgently need your advice and suggestions on this.
My husband has been out of job since towards the end of last year. Almost the same time I had my second baby. The truth is, the same me nursing my baby has been the same person struggling to provide for the home.
Knowing that he contributed to his lost of job. He goes to work late, different excuses, doing the job anyhow that the management had to fire him. This is the second job he's losing due to carelessness.
He wasn't still meeting up with responsibilities even when he had those jobs. He was always complaining of TP expenses, deduction due to late coming, his salaries was not benefiting us.
Our present accomodation of 250k, one bedroom apartment is expiring ending of next month and I don't know how we're going to pay for the rent. The previous rent I have always contributed when I had the money.
Presently I have no job. I left my job during delivery, but I'm hoping to start looking for job very soon. Yet, I'm not idle. I'm still trying with little business to cartar for the house.
The issue now is, he has arranged his stuffs preparing to relocate to the village and he wants us to go together because he can't afford to renew the rent.
I told him I can't go to the village with him, we are too young to start retiring to the village. What about good school for the children especially my first child? But he has decided to go without us, leaving us with the whole responsibilities.
I'm afraid, I can't afford everything here either. But going with him to the village is also very scary. A man who ignore us when there's nothing in the house, waiting for me to fix, how can I trust him and relocate with my two children to his village? I can't speak their language and it's an interior village, How do we survive there?
He's not even considering all these.
Pls, advice me on what to do. I'm really fed up.
God punish the Police officers in charge of these.
They protect the hotel & hotel owners & publish the girls & their state of origin because of brown envelop
It would have been better they kept quiet about the case because they are reporting trash. Nothing positive about the report
It is the rich(hotel owners+Police ) against the poor(the girls)
They should expose the hotel & the owners to deter others. they may be many more of such enterprise across the nation.
Africa is pivotal to the success of every other continent & remain the coveted Bride. Africa is blessed, but Africans sell their blessings,cheaply to few greedy leaders, who do not know left from right.
Yen eka, you did not advise him that the cost of living in Uyo/Eket/Ikot Abasi etc and generally in Akwa Ibom is very high compared to Lagos/South West/Middle Belt or Northern states. Food & transportation is cheaper in Lagos than in Akwa Ibom
More importantly, small businesses like POS etc thrive in Lagos more than Uyo, because of the population & commercial activities in Lagos
If he pays for 2 years at 150k, it means 300k is gone. Food is very expensive in Uyo. Ik meat in Lagos is 3K meat in Uyo, same for yam, potatoes & anything not derived from the state. Provisions/Consumables/Toiletries are more expensive in Uyo
On the other hand - fish, crayfish, palm oil, vegetables & other items derived from the state are cheaper.
EMMARNUEL:
My brother..
First of all, are you from Akwa ibom state?
Ado eyen nkang umi?
1M will fix u up so well in akwa ibom perfectly..
Standard self con here is 150k above..
Just dont spend on frivolities. And look for another business to venture into, nt POS.
Poor Nigerians cannot build or own a house anymore
As it stands now, poor Nigerians may not be able to own & drive vehicles anymore. Unfortunately, they might not be able to afford public transport.
But this is the #Change that was promised in 2015
This is delicate issue. To simplify it, get answers to the following questions, it might help get you well informed to make a good decision.
Has she seen her biological father before? Have they had any form of or conversion? if yes, what was it & how did it go?
Has the father made any attempts to be part pf her life? if yes in what ways? was it successful? if no, what was the issue
Has the father made any contribution to her welfare/education/well-being? if yes, how & when? if no, why?
Has the father tried to reach out to her? through any 3rd parties or intermediaries - lawyer/pastor/teacher/uncle/aunt/cousin/granny/neighbor/friend/chief etc if yes what was the outcome?
When last did she speak with the father?
If you establish that the father fizzled out & has not been part of her life, my brother, love is a beautiful thing. Now that both of you have found love, mbok, ku invoke negative emotions. Please stay within your comfort zone.
Irrespective, as you settle into a family, if the biological father reaches out for any assistance, help, if your wife allows you to.
More blessings.
MetaBroadband:
Good morning mature men and women in the house. Please I need your help on this topic.
My Fiancee told me about how her biological dad abandoned her and her mum after getting her mum pregnant.
Her mum later married another man who adopted her as his child.
Now she's grown and I've proposed to her, I wanted to go for her official introduction and list collection.
Would it not be nice to hear the biological father's opinion? Should I just ignore the fact that the man is still alive and proceed with the marriage arrangement?
Although she said I should not bother about that, but this is Nigeria and as an Akwa Ibomite I don't think it's proper. Although she's against me trying to find out about the man's opinion. Should I care?
What can you say about this?
Note: she only told me that the man abandoned them, but what if it was her mum that actually took her away?
You know the game.
fuel subsidy is "food for the boys" of any current istration
Asiwaju has not been part of the Nigerian petroleum 'racket' or cabal
But in my own opinion they are playing us like dice - subsidy or no subsidy
You know how Nigeria is run - 1% versus the rest of Nigerians(99%)
In business term, this 1% is called Dangote. Now, they say no more subsidy, products imports will drop once the current stock with NNPC is exhausted, prices might even go up to 1000 or more, and in few Months, the one percent release their own into the market at about 700, as if they are doing the 99% a favour (by d way, 2yrs ago, it was rumored that the 1% will sell their product at the equivalent of international rates)
This 1% have created monopoly for their biz, cement, sugar, salt etc. NNPC & CBN $$$$ is being injected into this biz.
Last Month, NNPC said nothing will be contributed into the consolidated revenue for allocation post May. All the $$$$ is injected into the 1% venture.
Head or tail the 99% looses. subsidy or no subsidy, the boys have settled themselves.
The only good thing is that as new set of boys come in, the subsidy amount would have jerked up, cause they would have to pad it with their own from where the last set of boys left it.
Nigeria is a stage
fuckJones:
One beautiful thing about president Tinubu is that, he never allowed his boys to have a taste of that thing called “fuel subsidy”, if not, it will still be the same story.
Fuel subsidy and dual dollar exchange most be settled before any ministry will be appointed
Marry the one tat you are not afraid to share your vulnerabilities.
As far as this one is concerned, you have nothing to hide or nothing to worry about. That is the one you will have peace; if the connection is there, emotions will grow. Ensure that you both have strong personal relationship with God.
conquerorsword:
Dear Nairalanders, I am at a point where I can say I am ready to marry and who to choose has been an issue.
I have friends that are really decent but no strong feelings attached.
I know the will of God but their Shakara too much and another thing is that them no love you the same way, they will also tell you that God did not tell them anything.
I also have a lady that I am in love with and when people see us, then say we are couples. And she loves me same way.
Please in situations like this what should I go for?
God has been blessing us with "reasonable" leadership.
Obong Attah came up with the master plan for the metropolis, conceived the Airport, Refinery, Econet investment etc
Obong Akpabio, ran with that vision & put the the state in 'limelight' & more importantly developed people(built capacity)
Mr Udom Emmanuel has done a lot in infrastructure
My prayer is for the next istration to take it a notch higher
God continue to bless & proper the "Land of Promise"
Akwa Ibom Ayaaya - "Im missing the love at home"
God bless us
God bless me
quote author=Supremos post=123404733]I love projects in Akwa ibom, have been to that
state at least twice, their Governors really have taste for quality [/quote]
Go visiting with them fro a couple weeks, just to check, maybe, you will have another perspective
SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and my mum and sis in UK.
I was given UK visa last year, refused to my sister that traveled this May
honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?
I wonder which one causes the most confusion between makeup artist/cosmetic surgeons/ Nigerian courts/Nigerian Political Parties & Political gladiators/Nigerian Police Force
Fineman2:
I don't know how some ladies will look like without makeup
Not much change.People are much more accommodating & empathetic post-COVID. After the lock down, or so it seams, a lot of people have come to the realisation that there is nothing in this life.
Economically, prices of things have tripled; to put it modestly. so budget with that in mind.
Tourist123:
I will be visiting Nigeria for the first time since Japaing 2 years ago, any security tips or economic tips I should know?
If your husband is tall, or physically blessed, please bear with him. Also if he has any health conditions; he needs that comfort, please bear with him & thank God that he can afford the biz class.
Also, if your husband is/has been a frequent flier on biz class with the employer/corporate sponsorship, he will find it difficult to fly economy; thank God he can afford it. Try to accommodate that.
It is unfortunate that he cannot afford this for the whole family.
The children have no issues with the seats, but generally women are more resilient in issues like because of their flexible composition. But if you know that the pocket is deep, you have to 'manage' your husband & get to enjoy the biz class too.
OLAADEGBU: My husband always flies first class but makes me and the children sit in economy
In some part of Akwa Ibom, the traditional marriage list is more or less a family "artifact" that is given to a groom who come to marry from the family. It is not cast on stone though. The bride's father will play along and allow such list to be given by default to the groom so as to be in sync with his kinsmen, the list is open for discussion (iterative). He can as well run it by himself & decide & curate his own list.
Usually, it is open to negotiation, in some families, The bride's father might advise that he tries his best to gratify the items on the list meant for the extended family, and such factors like groom's religion & life philosophy also play a big influence on what is acceptable by the intended couple & grooms family e.g. a born again Christian will not offer to give things like alcoholic beverages/spirits/tobacco etc & that can be respected.
There usually a back & forth engagement/discussion on refining the list. The bride father have the final say but if he happens to favor tradition it becomes a little bit of a problem.
Also if the bride's father is late & the brother(s) who run the show is seen to be 'naive' it can be an issue but if the brother is of age, wise,smart & courageous, it is to their advantage, he can decide to be radical & run one man show without recourse to the locals. Everything stops at his table to the advantage of the sister.
The bride can also appeal to the parents on what the husband is able/willing to give - it is all about her happiness
Anfield247:
Recently, let me say two to three weeks ago, my mom came back from church, discussing about an traditional marriage and wedding ceremony of the daughter of one of her church with my dad. They were busy, I mean my mom and dad were busy talking about how the groom is a wealthy man and how the marriage will be glorious
I didn't even pick interest because I got better things to think about.
The bride-to-be is a graduate from akwa ibom, while the groom-to-be, on the other hand, is a pastor of one popular church in Nigeria, I won't mention the name of the church because not all their pastors are the same.
When they started the relationship, the pastor was rushing everything, he was like he can't wait to marry this pretty damsel.
According to the story, the parents of the both families have met each other, and some part of the traditional marriage has been done.
Everything was going according to plans, they even brought out a pre-wedding photo, which I myself saw on her Facebook. Here is how the marriage took a new twist,
Now, three days to the traditional marriage, the groom-to-be came out and said he's not getting married to the Bride anymore, that is no longer interested in the marriage.
When they asking why, he said it was because of the bride price list they gave to him.
Now, his church said there's no problem about that, that they will sponsor everything, the pastor still vehemently insisted that he is no longer interested in the marriage...
The parents of the girl said the marriage list is always open for negotiation, that it is not compulsory to pay everything at once, or even everything no the list to be paid,The young man still said no.
Now the marriage has been called off and the girl is heart-broken.
My Mom follow the mother of the bride-to-be to do the shopping.
They even invited so many people to the marriage ceremony but it unfortunately ended in the most unbelievable way...
What could possibly be the reason behind his decision?
Can a man go as far as performing some traditional marriage rite just to sleep with a girl?
Could it be because of the list?
Or can infantuation drive a man to do the unthinkable?
Could it be spiritual manipulation or just the matter of choice?
HITsquad:
She was posted on CNN official Instagram a while ago, which was really great.
But the comment section was really irritating! It got flooded by Nigerians as you would expect. But Instead of enjoying the moment as Nigerians, some were busy attacking everyone... playing the race card,accusing the international community of not giving her enough recognition because she was black and African. Seriously?
I don't understand how we think sometimes, why are we making this too much of a big deal? Hilda baci did an amazing job no doubt... She got her message out there too.. she showed the world that there are still positive things about Nigeria, She showed the world the Naija vibes and how ive Nigerians can be. So we are proud of her... I'm personally proud of her.
But guys please stop overreacting. I don't know exactly what you guys think she did.
Bro... She cooked for 100 hours non stop. which is amazing and not an easy task to accomplish.. So she did great!
But she is not the first person to do something like that ok, alot of people have already done that in the past... but only slightly fewer hours. say na another person record she dey break like this! And she probably won't hold it forever. (Infact The way you guys are going about this whole thing, person fit vex smash that record much more sooner)
So stop acting like she did something "un-doable"...... stop acting like they should hand her over King Charles crown... Or name her among Albert Einstein and Da Vinci.
Na only cook she cook it's not like she just discovered the cure for cancer!
Worse victim here is his son. He is the most embarrassed person in the episode, unfortunately he cannot speak up for himself. The child's mental is so badly impacted. Run away father for 11 years, now making the son feel rejected & unwanted.
The boy did not have to be part of that discussion, he is supposed to have reach an agreement before bringing the cute boy. He should not just walk in with the child, his wife needs time to have processed this & come to with it.
Very irresponsible man. Shameless
d=.
officialwdhtv:
Man brings home his 11yr old secret son to his wife of 13yrs.
No one want to draw caparison on his looks, then & now?
Iliyasdass:
IF YOU CAN RECALL WHERE 46-YEAR-OLD AMERICAN MOM LOCATES 26-YEAR-OLD LOVER IN KANO FOĹ” MARRIAGE, THE GUY IS NOW A SOLDIER IN AMERICA AFTER THEY HAVE RELOCATED...
Sulieman who married an American woman he met on Instagram sometimes in 2020 has ed the US army.
It is okay to grief. It is okay to cry, Whenever you feel like crying, go ahead & cry, it help you release the negative emotions - it is a healing process.
if you want to pretend to be strong, you bottle it up & & delay the healing process.
May God comfort & strengthen you & the entire family.
RoyalBlu:
It's been over three weeks now I lost my younger sister to death. I'm still finding it really difficult to get myself together.
The pain of losing her so untimely has shaken me to my roots. The tears won't stop coming.
I've been told to try and move on and be strong. But how
court should not be your first step, it will prolong the case & your company will go under in the process & at the end you are likely to get nothing from her.
Drag her to arbitration. There, they will be objective & your organisation running as a growing concern will be one of the objectives.
But this is a classic example of a poorly managed company. Even a barber shop can be better managed.
concho:
When I took over as a director in our company , I noticed that the company’s Secretary is a chronic liar
Most excuses she gives to avoid coming to work always seem like lies to me . But I couldn’t confront her since I don’t have proves .
Today her mum is very sick, tomorrow her dad is about dying .
I also noticed that she doesn’t do her jobs ( financial recordings ) . She is always sleeping at work and says she is sick when confronted .
We started looking for replacements , but I noticed also that she discourages everyone that wants to work .
On Thursday, she said her dad was dead and would be Buried on Saturday . I granted her a leave between Thursday and Saturday and I conclude that I must find her village and attend the burial without telling her .
On getting to her village , I discovered that there was no burial and the parents she constantly used as excuse died years ago
I sent her video I made in her village only for her to tell me that she won’t come to work again .
She handed nothing over to the company . She didn’t provide details of the transactions she did in the previous weeks .
I asked her details of the companies transactions during the Naira scarcity , she refused to come bring these things .
This resignation would take us one year backwards in other to sort her stuffs out. She handed over to no one
If I let her go free , other workers would emulate her .
Babe, take it easy & thank God that you have a mum & this is coming from your mum & not someone else.
But it all depends on your mum's age and how her attitude has been growing up; she will go back to those attitude she had while growing up. If she has advanced in age you really have to tolerate some innuendoes.
It is characteristic for a lot of mothers to report siblings to another; that should not mean much.
For the emotional blackmail; just see it a one of those things.
Try your best to make your mum happy, she will not be here all the time. Eventually, you look back & laugh off these things.
whyteteeth:
It's draining dealing with my mom everytime she comes to the city to stay in the same house with me. I live in my elder sister's house but she (my sister) stays abroad with her family. I am the last child and I am not married. I work from home though. My mum visits here once in a while. Anytime she comes around she does a lot of things that spoils my mood. For instance, she doesn't like taking her children's advice no matter how important it is to them. She likes having her way all the time. And when we try to stop her, she guilt trips us and emotionally blackmails us.
I have other siblings who do not live with me but they used to come around with their children anytime mom is around. My father is back home and hardly visits. She doesn't listen to my dad if he advices her.
Mom will first and foremost get someone upset, and when the person complains, she will watch out for one negative word that will slip out from your mouth and use it to emotionally blackmail you. She will cry because of what you said to her until you feel guilty and beg her to forgive you. She also likes reporting her child to another of her child without minding if it would damage their relationship.
She likes making her child feel bad so long as she has her way and she is happy. She pays no attention to the feelings of her children anytime she wants anything. For instance, My mom can make you spend money on something that she already has. Sometimes she will drag for something that she doesn't even need. She feels as a mother all her children must make her happy else they don't like her.
Also, She is terrible with conversations both on phone and physically. If you try to have a one on one talk with her, she will make the conversation very unpleasant because she will keep interrupting, next thing she will cry or she will get up and leave you.
She never sees her fault. Even if she apologies, she would do the same thing again and blame you for making her do it.
If she comes around and everywhere is peaceful, after a short while argument will begin which may lead to a fight.
This is because she likes jamming one person with another person and eventually make them quarel. She enjoys adding words that was never in the conversation when she is reporting somebody to another perosn. Most times those words are very hurting and will lead to a fight. And when the fight begins, she will start crying. Sometimes she would intentionally fall on the ground while trying to separate a fight, just to make sure everybody runs helter-skelter trying to get her up on her feet.
She has blood pressure issues, hence she uses that as a weapon to guilt-trip her children so they can succumb to her demands. For instance, if she says things that are not true about her child to another of her child and the person finds out, once you confront her, she would say " don't query me oh, shey you know my blood pressure would soon go up. I didn't kill my mother, don't kill me oh." Or she will just start crying and say the person hates her and what was said isn't true, and that she never said anything like that. She denies the things she says that are bad soon after she says them.
Gosh, I am just tired of my mom. I feel like packing out of this house, blocking her and not letting her come close to me because of how emotionally draining it is everytime she comes around.
Everbryte: 8:27pm On Sep 26, 2023 
