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A Kenyan lady, Akinyi Hellen, has shared her story of alleged betrayal by her younger sister, whom she described as “jealous.”

She wrote …

“How do people deal with jealous sisters? This lady is my younger sister. We share the same mum. I’m 13 years older than her. So I’ve always considered her like my daughter

“A lot happened during my teenage days and our parents separated. I decided to take my siblings and live with them. I educated my sister until she graduated.

My sister repaid me by sleeping with my man. That’s why I low-key hate marriage because part of me feel men are just evil people. Who does that? I forgave my sister but then her jealousy continued growing each day. She recruited her friends to hate me. On my face she acted innocent, very soft spoken but behind the scenes, she told people I was an evil sister.

I started using sea salt October last year and by December my sister couldn’t hide the hatred she had towards me anymore. I had even paid for a vacation in Mombasa and I ended up leaving her there.

Recently, she was all over texting the father of my kid asking for money and I let it slide. She made it a habit and I had to put a stop to that nonsense. This lady is now very salty trying to ruin everything for me.

When I say I don’t want kids anymore. I don’t want my daughter to go through the bullshit I go through in the name of siblings. What do I do to this lady? I’m posting here because I got no family to share this with. I’m a loner.”

There is love in sharing sorry

Hmm

Na only God fit understand bannies,after all he was the one who created them in the first place

Dog 🐕 dey chop dog 🐕 nowaday, so I'm not surprised 😊

Why not find your sister a boyfriend?
Girls promote their friends on Whatsapp when they lack a relationship

"I forgave her...I let it slide...what do I do?

This is the language of PERPETUAL victims.

When you meet them, you'll know. They carry themselves in a way that's begging to be FLEECED.

They seek out PREDATORS and beg to be VICTIMIZED.
Their entire identity is about being PERSECUTED PREYS.

Take this one for instance:

She SPONSORED a girl through school. Gave her food, clothing and accommodation.

Instead of showing GRATITUDE to her, the girl POUNCED on her man's diccck to show him her sexual skills.

When the BETRAYAL came to light, she did NOT immediately ostracize the ungrateful WHOOOORE. Instead, she chose to FORGIVE.

She forgave the ULTIMATE betrayal.
That's STUPIDITY!

Forgiving SHITTY behaviours is not a sign of maturity or emotional intelligence.
It's a sign of WEAKNESS!

It lets people know that you'll tolerate NONSENSE because you have ZERO self-respect.

That's like a CLARION CALL to the worst people out there.

People who TOLERATE nonsense bring out the WORST in even good people.

But people with FIRM boundaries bring out the BEST in even bad people.

Even at 58 years of age, my boyfriend still prefers to younger girls. Madam work on yourself..

Your sister, a fellow woman like you keep committing all the atrocities against you, instead of blaming her, you still went ahead to blame men . Chaiii, men have suffered

When you have soft spot for family, you'll die quick, I don't even forgive

🤦🏽‍♀️

NgeneUkwenu:
Even at 58 years of age, my boyfriend still prefers to younger girls. Madam work on yourself..

Don't worry. There are guys who are absolutely into women in their 50s

Wicked sibling

pen!s dey always cause wahala. women no like sharing the gbola

Namaster:
"I forgave her...I let it slide...what do I do?

This is the language of PERPETUAL victims.

When you meet them, you'll know. They carry themselves in a way that's begging to be FLEECED.

They seek out PREDATORS and beg to be VICTIMIZED.
Their entire identity is about being PERSECUTED PREYS.

Take this one for instance:

She SPONSORED a girl through school. Gave her food, clothing and accommodation.

Instead of showing GRATITUDE to her, the girl POUNCED on her man's diccck to show him her sexual skills.

When the BETRAYAL came to light, she did NOT immediately ostracize the ungrateful WHOOOORE. Instead, she chose to FORGIVE.

She forgave the ULTIMATE betrayal.
That's STUPIDITY!

Forgiving SHITTY behaviours is not a sign of maturity or emotional intelligence.
It's a sign of WEAKNESS!

It lets people know that you'll tolerate NONSENSE because you have ZERO self-respect.

That's like a CLARION CALL to the worst people out there.

People who TOLERATE nonsense bring out the WORST in even good people.

But people with FIRM boundaries bring out the BEST in even bad people.

Wise words.

NgeneUkwenu:
Even at 58 years of age, my boyfriend still prefers to younger girls. Madam work on yourself..

I take it you are joking right?
I will keep my thoughts to myself ma'am, i don't want to be banned for 600 years.

Give her 3 holy slaps. She will go back to factory settings.

Nonsense and ingredients

Stop exposing your family negatively on social media.

may, karma has come to repay u.

As a guy its better for a girl to be crazy about you than you been crazy about her.
no matter what i can't bang two sisters unless i never knew they were sisters or wasn't in love.

Omo this one's get enough food to eat Sha

Aeroplane11:
Why not find your sister a boyfriend?
Girls promote their friends on Whatsapp when they lack a relationship

Funny lady.

So, she doesn't know that she has no sister yet?

A bad sibling is worse than a bad friend. You can easily cut off a bad friend. You cannot totally cut off bad siblings (family occasions, etc), but keep them very far from yourself.

When you bring bad people close in the name of forgiveness, they refine their wickedness. They will just come and finish you off.

Be wise like a serpent and innocent like a dove.

Na Family matter!

NgeneUkwenu:
Even at 58 years of age, my boyfriend still prefers to younger girls. Madam work on yourself..

Are you a Grand MILF yet?

Our girls

NgeneUkwenu:
Even at 58 years of age, my boyfriend still prefers to younger girls. Madam work on yourself..

58 years a d still talking about bf? Lol are you kidding me?

You mean you're still sexsually active at your age? Or you just doing it for companionship sake.

maybe, karma has come to repay u

One culture that have since eroded among Nigeria female, unlike in the past that women are too sensitive about their body and dignities, then, they were too conscious about men/boy they wanted to open their body for, but now, any boy/man that comes with right price, they open pant without thinking twice

Then, any man who already having affair with any of their relative or even friend, if such person asks them out, they treated him with disdain.

Single girls see married men who ask them for relationship like lepers.

Teenage girls run away for men who are old enough to be their uncle or daddy.

If you are not a student, you ask girl who is a student out, be expecting insults.

They feel belittle,having multiple boyfriends then.

They ashamed discussing how men having sex with them, but now, women discuss sex much more than men in open discussion.

oz4real83:
Your sister, a fellow woman like you keep committing all the atrocities against you, instead of blaming her, you still went ahead to blame men . Chaiii, men have suffered

The man has to blamed too.. in fact he is bringing curse to himself if he don't pay for in-laws service or marry her. Those are the two options he has to be free