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Hello Nairalanders

I just discovered that my biological Dad is from Ozu-Abam in Abia state (Ohafia or Arochukwu) I've never met him since I was born, my mom just informed me today after much persuasion. Please any Nairalander from Ozu-Abam who can help me trace the Egbuta family? His name is Emeka Egbuta and according to my mom, he died before my birth (which I highly doubt).

I've searched FB and sent a couple of FR to as much Egbuta as I could, all from Ozu-Abam. Please I need help guys.

Mods please send to FP, abeg help me gain more audience.

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onefourseven:
Hello Nairalanders

I just discovered that my biological Dad is from Ozu-Abam in Abia state (Ohafia or Arochukwu) I've never met him since I was born, my mom just informed me today after much persuasion. Please any Nairalander from Ozu-Abam who can help me trace the Egbuta family? His name is Emeka Egbuta and according to my mom, he died before my birth (which I highly doubt).

I've searched FB and sent a couple of FR to as much Egbuta as I could, all from Ozu-Abam. Please I need help guys.

Mods please send to FP, abeg help me gain more audience.

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excellence44:

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Thanks boss

And some single mothers will think they have it all figured out.

The heart always wants more.

Foodqueen:
And some single mothers will think they have it all figured out.

The heart always wants more.

Every child deserves to know his/her root.

So I have a son

Oh my son...

Where have you been?

What use is your father if I may ask? Unless he's Dangote, i see no reason to seek out a deadbeat father who couldn't fight to be in your life for all these years. He will end up being a liability to you and nothing more. People need to learn to move on!

please look for him, it is important

AndroidAI:
What use is your father if I may ask? Unless he's Dangote, i see no reason to seek out a deadbeat father who couldn't fight to be in your life for all these years. He will end up being a liability to you and nothing more. People need to learn to move on!

So Dangote is permitted to be a deadbeat father right? I don't think you know how manipulative women can be.

Whether he's a deadbeat or livebeat or a liability, ion care man.

anthonyuncle:
please look for him, it is important

Thanks my brother, this guy above thinks like a bitter sheman. I'll go search for my father, I need to hear his own side of the story ( I hope and pray he's still on earth).

Try Facebook pages like Rant HQ, Igboist Date, Ndi-Igbo and some other Igbo pages on Facebook

Hmmm all this people that will always look for someone who don't even want them or even care.I wonder what u stand to gain sha

onefourseven:


So Dangote is permitted to be a deadbeat father right? I don't think you know how manipulative women can be.

Whether he's a deadbeat or livebeat or a liability, ion care man.

Loool, I hope single mothers are learning, ensure the Father plays a financial role in the life of the child. Don't do all alone oo.

Don't do it all alone, laslas you might be accused of being manipulative by the very one you sacrificed all for.

Foodqueen:
And some single mothers will think they have it all figured out.

The heart always wants more.

For those looking for "anonymous" sperm donors.

Let this be an eye opener that the child would look for his dad when he grows up and you could get killed or hated if you fail to show him his dad.

Cc: Pocohantas

Jman06:
For those looking for "anonymous" sperm donors.

Let this be an eye opener that the child would look for his dad when he grows up and you could get killed or hated if you fail to show him his dad.

Cc: Pocohantas

Lol. I think you need to get your brain checked and at least figure out what is triggering this obsession. Anyone that follows me or is familiar with my posts would know I DO NOT encourage single mothers/divorcees taking or keeping away a child from his/her father. I have NEVER encouraged that act. Before you Cc me next time, do get your facts right.

If I face you now, you would start playing victim and claiming I pick on you and my bitterness is unbecoming. Do well to stay away from me for your own good.

Merry Christmas in advance.

NoToPile:


Loool, I hope single mothers are learning, ensure the Father plays a financial role in the life of the child. Don't do all alone oo.

Don't do it all alone, laslas you might be accused of being manipulative by the very one you sacrificed all for.

You know, mothers always have it worse.

If the Op's case were the other way around (not knowing his mum), the story would've been that his mother abandoned him when he was just a child (without caring to know what happened).

Looking for an absentee father..I hope you don't find him. You Son of a gun!

Why look for a man who hasn't bothered to look for you and wants nothing to do with you

What if you find him and he denies you?

pocohantas:


Lol. I think you need to get your brain checked and at least figure out what is triggering this obsession. Anyone that follows me or is familiar with my posts would know I DO NOT encourage single mothers/divorcees taking or keeping away a child from his/her father. I have NEVER encouraged that act. Before you Cc me next time, do get your facts right.

If I face you now, you would start playing victim and claiming I pick on you and my bitterness is unbecoming. Do well to stay away from me for your own good.

Merry Christmas in advance.

Among all the ladies I know in this site, I find you so amazing. Many times you have been slyted, yet you return vitepurations with soft response.

I am your secret irer and your fan.

However, I am not a SIMP and I am not simping.

DaniDani:


Among all the ladies I know in this site, I find you so amazing. Many times you have been slyted, yet you return vitepurations with soft response.

I am your secret irer and your fan.
However, I am not a SIMP and I am not simping.

Lol. Thanks Dani! This is not always the case, but I have my good days.

Thank for the kind words and compliments of the season.

pocohantas:


Lol. I think you need to get your brain checked and at least figure out what is triggering this obsession. Anyone that follows me or is familiar with my posts would know I DO NOT encourage single mothers/divorcees taking or keeping away a child from his/her father. I have NEVER encouraged that act. Before you Cc me next time, do get your facts right.

If I face you now, you would start playing victim and claiming I pick on you and my bitterness is unbecoming. Do well to stay away from me for your own good.

Merry Christmas in advance.

I will not stay away from you .

Na me and you for this forum....lol


Merry Christmas in ady to you!

DaniDani:


Many times you have been slyted, yet you return vitepurations with soft response.

Accurate Picture of pocohantas soft smile after bringing gun to knifefight / tank to gun fight / a10 warthog to ground skirmish

GloriousGbola:




Accurate Picture of pocohantas soft smile after bringing gun to knifefight / tank to gun fight / a10 warthog to ground skirmish

Lol. It is Christmas, I am of my best behaviour this season.

pocohantas:


Lol. It is Christmas, I am of my best behaviour this season.

NoToPile:


Loool, I hope single mothers are learning, ensure the Father plays a financial role in the life of the child. Don't do all alone oo.

Don't do it all alone, laslas you might be accused of being manipulative by the very one you sacrificed all for.

I am even shocked someone is Cc-ing me on this. I have said it here that except you are a Linda Ikeji, you would crumble. Even Linda wanted the man involved but he refused.

Asides the fact that a child needs a balance of both parents, it is TOXIC to restrict the child’s access to the other parent. Sometimes they grow to idolise the absent parent. They would convince themselves they would have been better or stable adults if the absent parent was around.

I see many SMs every other time on social media. Many of them end up begging for giveaway and playing the single mother card to evoke sympathy. Some end up dating married men. Some cannot get to their full potentials because they are playing dad and mum while working to feed this child (or children). Get the man involved! If he was a bad partner, was he also a bad father? They are two different things. If he refuses to daddy-up after several attempts, you can now let him be knowing you have satisfied your conscience.

kodix:
Hmmm all this people that will always look for someone who don't even want them or even care.I wonder what u stand to gain sha

I'm sure you know your root? I'm sure you're a man just like me. I hope you understand boss.

pocohantas:


I am even shocked someone is Cc-ing me on this. I would never understand why they do that. I have said it here that except you are a Linda Ikeji, you would crumble. Even Linda wanted the man involved but he refused.

Asides the fact that a child needs a balance of both parents, it is TOXIC to restrict the child’s access to the other parent. Sometimes they grow to idolise the absent parent. They would convince themselves they would have been better or stable adults if the absent parent was around.

I see SMs every other time on social media. Many of them end up begging for giveaway and playing the single mother card to evoke sympathy. Some end up dating married men. Some cannot get to their full potentials because they are playing dad and mum while working to feed this child (or children). Get the man involved! If he was a bad partner, was he also a bad father? They are two different things.

Samantha123:
Why look for a man who hasn't bothered to look for you and wants nothing to do with you

What if you find him and he denies you?

All these fatherless babies sef.

mariahAngel:


You know, mothers always have it worse.

If the Op's case were the other way around (not knowing his mum), the story would've been that his mother abandoned him when he was just a child (without caring to know what happened).

Trash as usuall. Tell us you don't have a father.

Justbehave:
Trash as usuall. Tell us you don't have a father.

Of course, I have a father.

A FATHER that has always protected me and always been there for me.
A FATHER that worked so hard to provide everything I ever needed in life.
A FATHER who showed me love, and how I should be respected.
A FATHER who showed me my worth, so that I could never be deceived by foxes like you who go about, ruining the lives of those who do not know their worth.
A FATHER I could call upon at any time, and he would answer.
A FATHER I could rely on.
A FATHER WHO SHOWED UP EVERY TIME I NEEDED HIM!
A FATHER that never disappointed me. Not once in my life.
A FATHER who raised honourable sons and daughters.
A FATHER who protects the mother of his children.
A FATHER I look up to.
The kind of FATHER you can never be!