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Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help (47304 Views)
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| Marvellsmart(m): 2:24pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week. We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men. In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s. How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp. I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today. What should I do? Please help me love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this  ??Should I cancel the wedding? Should I confront him? I'm confused I want to run mad. 51 Likes 9 Shares |
| ahnie: 2:30pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
 May I asked,if he's a Nigerian man? Pls am asking for a friend. 35 Likes 4 Shares |
| loffyloffy: 2:31pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Are you ready to be sharing him with other men? If not, this is a good time to say bye, you will share custody of the child. You don't have to tell everyone around you he is gay...but if you do talk to him, let him know you know, and why u can't go on with the relationship. You will find another man..hopefully 334 Likes 20 Shares |
| Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 2:34pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
loffyloffy:When gays gather...... 
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| mymadam(m): 2:36pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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OMG! My honest advice? Run for your life now... before it's too late.
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| vincenteger: 2:43pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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A lot seem to be ing through people oo Confront him about your finding He should tell you the truth and if at the end he confirmed to be gay Then you can choose to cancel the marriage for your own piece of mind. But if you choose otherwise Just be ready to share him and also be invited for thresom 39 Likes 8 Shares |
| advanceDNA: 2:44pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Fake story... But shaa go for HIV test shaaa...cos gay pple...i no just get their collabo with HIV 155 Likes 13 Shares |
| Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 2:47pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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I don't get it, how is he your husband when you're not yet married? Or you don't know the meaning of husband? 40 Likes 2 Shares |
| africandictator(m): 2:54pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Go and do hiv test before I tell you my mind
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| Abolodje: 2:55pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Person nor fit believe una story for this nairaland sef whether na true or false 😒
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| Demigod22: 2:56pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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You dated him for four years and throughput that four years, you guys are sexually active that you are even pregnant for him, and your marriage is next week. The guys I have seen don't have sex with women. They don't see me in any picture as far as sex is concerned. PS: I know some people are bisexual. 16 Likes 1 Share |
| ChuksHills(m): 3:22pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Marvellsmart: You dated him for 4yrs you couldn't detect anything from his life style, that's so bad. Maybe you were carried away by love. If you don't want to live all your life in depression cancel the marriage but if you can cope or tolerate the gay in him as a flaw continue with him. Know this that gay or lesbianism is an abomination and a curse to whoever indulges in it. If you don't want to have a generation or start your own family on a curse foundation the decision is yours to make now it is very early. 37 Likes 3 Shares |
| DropsMic(m): 3:22pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Yawn
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| MrBrownJay1(m): 3:49pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Marvellsmart: shattap your mouth with your yeye love...this man is a deceitful demon and you better RUUUUUN! better yet, wait til wedding day and post his gay chat on a big screen for EVERYONE IN ATTENDANCE TO SEE THE TYPE OF ANIMAL THAT THIS MAN IS ...then walk away with your dignity/health! 15 Likes 2 Shares |
| smile11s(m): 4:35pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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All these story that touches can be avoid if we LGBTQ+* Imagine a life that we all can live the truths, do you think there will be gay men faking it with women? You don’t have to be gay to gay, you are only ing them to live the truth and be happy. This sister wouldn’t be in this situation if we allowed everyone to live in their truth. 24 Likes 7 Shares |
| ORAFA(m): 4:36pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Ajuwaya that marriage
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| BOLATINUBU01: 4:36pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Run as soon as possible
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| Noblegraphix20(m): 4:36pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Thank God you found out b4 marriage.. But he will change.. U can also help him to change by praying and also by satisfying him in the ozza room.. Because you can't stop him from hanging out with his males friends 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Chi133(f): 4:36pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Marvellsmart: Which help again do you need? God has helped you already. U no go leave abi? 23 Likes 1 Share |
| 9jaBloke: 4:36pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Follow the instruction directly below
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| zoedew: 4:37pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Run! Your life, destiny and eternal well being has become seriously endangered!
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| affable4(m): 4:37pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Now you are aware, it's either you leave now, or you stay and compromise. There is no 'changing him'. No try am! 19 Likes 2 Shares |
| staga: 4:37pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Marvellsmart: Maybe you want to contract HIV. Marry a man that fears God 100%, women no want. Na the one wey go put them for wahala dem sabi. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
| IyaTola: 4:37pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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| TechCapon(m): 4:37pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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| inoki247: 4:38pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Lol Wahala no too much like this... When Marriage as been turn to achievement this what people start Getting some people are just going into Marriage for going sake.... You beta run for your life... 6 Likes |
| Ventura1: 4:38pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Nothing to help you about. The decision to continue or not is solely yours. 5 Likes |
| Kobicove(m): 4:38pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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How is it possible to date someone for 4 years and not see the signs that something is off about the person's sexuality? 
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| Kaytixy: 4:38pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Marvellsmart:post his picture I want to see him. 1 Like |
| fixitbyjal(m): 4:38pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Find a gay house help simple
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| Juju70(m): 4:38pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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How can I be of help Madam!!!
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| cezarman(m): 4:38pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Seems fake
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